Beyond Horizons

MEN AND S*X

Believe it or not women find it difficult to understand the reason why men love s*x.

* If they want to help you, they will demand for s*x.
* If they say they love you, they want s*x.
* You mistakenly sleep over, they want s*x.
* They want to borrow money from you, they want s*x.
* They want to give you a job, they want s*x.
* They want to give you a pass in your exams, they want s*x.

First of all, you need to understand the system of men. They didn't ask for that because they didn't create themselves.

Do you know that 95% of healthy men wake up with an er****on?
Did they bargain for that? No!
Do you know that the p***s has a mind of its own?

A man could be reading his Bible and his p***s will just stand.
A man can be sleeping and wakes up with an er****on.
A man could be sleeping, once you start rubbing the p***s, it
stands even when he is still asleep.

Have you ever asked yourself why men are not on periods, cramps or any bad moods? That's how God created them. A man is naturally always ready for s*x. Rub a man on his head, he already thinks you want s*x. Wink at him, he's already seeing you naked. Wave at a man walking with his wife, he will loose focus.

This is nothing spiritual. It's not about, "ln Jesus Name or Holy
Ghost Fire".

That's why real churches do not allow ladies with short dresses to sit in front, because they will confuse the Pastor. Men did not manufacture the high libido by themselves.

We are all created in God's image. The only man that overcame the s*xual urge according to the good book was Jesus Christ. Joseph's own was that, he didn't just ran away,
he fled!! Jesus is Lord and on top of that, He was very careful not to include a woman among His disciples.

So many great men have fallen because of s*x. Do you think they wanted to?

Soldiers in the war front will develop the urge for s*x. To show you how bad it is, so many soldiers were killed during wars because a woman lured them inside bush.

David in the scriptures sent a woman's husband to the war front when he saw a woman washing outside. He was later told that it is the wife of his faithful servant who he has sent to war. He took the woman and had s*x with her.

Do I need to tell you about Sampson?
Solomon and other Bible characters?
It only takes the grace of God and some level of discipline and maturity to curtail this animalistic instinct.

The way the man's body reacts to the s*xual urge is not the same as a woman's body reacts to it. How many great women have you heard messed up because of a dick? Few, or even none.
So next time a man misbehaves because of s*x, don't see him as an animal. They are just responding to nature.

Don't be like, "I've lost the respect I had for you, "I thought you were responsible, so this was what you wanted?"

I pray you read this post with realistic understanding.
Men should also understand that it is not all er****on that is meant for s*x. They should learn to control their urge.

Men are wonderfully created, but CONTROL YOURSELVES, OH YE MEN!!!

Unspoken Longings: A Journey Through Love and Unrequited Affection

During my adolescent years, I began to understand the complexities of love and attachment as integral aspects of human evolution. I observed my friends expressing their affection for their partners, and I too felt the desire to experience such emotions. In every classroom, I found myself drawn to a mesmerizing girl, the one unanimously admired for her beauty. While other boys competed to win her attention, I refrained from expressing my feelings, concealing my emotions within. It was a painful experience, especially when others teased me about a connection that didn't exist. The one I truly admired never received such attention.

Time passed, and adolescence gave way to adulthood. My inclination towards beauty extended to the allure of flowers, yet I couldn't forget the girl I had never spoken to. I first noticed her in 2020 at a random children's birthday party while I was on a work assignment. I tried in vain to discover her name, managing only to learn her nickname. Her charm captivated me, prompting me to search for her on social media. After a month of searching, I found her on Facebook and sent a friend request. Regrettably, she never accepted my request. Despite my patience, I couldn't wait any longer. I mustered the courage to message her directly, introducing myself formally and hoping for a positive response. Unfortunately, she never read my messages. After two months of silence, I deleted the messages and withdrew my friend request, preserving my self-respect.

However, my emotions for her lingered. Fate intervened, and I encountered her again a few months ago at a restaurant. She was with her family, and I couldn't approach her amidst their presence. Despite the passage of time, she remained as beautiful and youthful as ever.