Rooke Maths

Loneliness

Since loneliness is one of our youths greatest problems, it is important to teach your child some social skills. An open conversation with your child about making friends can be very helpful.

Taking the first step to connect with a stranger can be daunting. It is important to find a prompt to connect such as giving the person a sincere compliment. The compliment could be on clothing, jewelry, hair, some achievement or anything else.

Another good way to connect is to offer a person something such as food or a toy. You can also offer to help a person with something such as carrying a bag for them.

Teach your child to ask questions and be a good listener. Teach your child to be sensitive to a friend’s feelings or what his/her friend says and needs.

Encourage your child to invite the friend over to your house for some activity such as a meal, swimming, a game or to do some craft. This does not have to be a lavish occasion and avoid comparing your home with someone else's home. What is most important is to make the friend feel welcome, relaxed and enjoy the company at your home.

Encourage your child to avoid stressful relations like competing with friends but rather be supportive of friends and proud of their achievements. Make sure they do things together that are just fun and enjoyable.

Create a safe environment for your child to socialize. Supervision is necessary but should correspond with your child’s age group. Avoid being controlling and rather suggest activities when needed.