NUI

Men are not perfect that's why God had to create a Helpmate for the man because He God knew that man will need guidance in some things.

It's a womans place to make her man be the kind of man she wants him to be. (positively). Men at times let thier ego get in the way thus hindering them to live beyond their potential.

It's his woman's job to see how she can push him in becoming the best version of himself. Don't be afraid to help correct your man if he is wrong.

On the other hand if you try to guide or correct your guy towards the right path and he keeps on refusing or he keeps on living the way he is which is non productive, then my sister that's a red flag for you to leave him.

If you truly love someone you will do all your best to help him be that great guy or woman.

Help your man to start saving his money, help him cut down on careless expenses like alcohol or buying of liabilities instead of assets. Hear is plan, mission or visions and see where you the woman you fall.

Both of you need to grow together so that you can both make it together. Men are stubborn but every woman knows the right frequency to get to her man.

Ngubi Valery aka IL CIPH3R

Generous in love God
Huge in mercy
Loving father
Before you now we come
We’ve been out of step for so long
In the wrong since we were born
Wipe away our records

Start afresh with us
Lord we need your Mercy.
Let your mercy flow like a river.
Pour out your mercy.
Our Fathers need your mercy.
Our children need your mercy.
Our leaders need your mercy
Our mothers need your mercy.

Bring down your mercy.
Send us your mercy.
Wash us in your red flow.
Have mercy on us Lord.
We cry for your mercy.
Havw mercy on Cameroon.
The whole world needs your mercy.

Have mercy Lord Jesus
If you judge us no one will stand. 😭😭😭😭

𝔹𝔼 𝕄𝕀N𝔻𝔽𝕌𝕃 𝕆𝔽 𝕐𝕆𝕌ℝ 𝔸𝕊𝕊𝕆ℂ𝕀𝔸𝕋𝕀𝕆N𝕊

Different levels of relationships are based on varying ranges—or circles—of trust. Our innermost circles, for example, might include our heavenly Father, our parents, spouse, siblings, or closest friends.

And although we do certainly want to share the love of Christ with everyone we meet and treat all people with kindness no matter what their behaviors or beliefs are, we should be mindful of who we let into our inner circles of trust, because those are the people who will influence us the most.

Basically, trust is not an emotion, but a relational honor bestowed upon someone who consistently demonstrates his or her trustworthiness. A circle of trust is built on mutually fulfilling and beneficial relationships undergirded by authenticity and the core values of love, care, honesty, integrity, authenticity, credibility, truthfulness, trustworthiness, and respect.

There shouldn’t be anyone in your inner circle with whom you don’t have unquestionable confidence, assurance, and conviction concerning their character, values, and integrity.
This also pertains to organizations we affiliate ourselves with. In order to live life to the fullest, we must choose to allow our closest alliances to be kingdom-minded people and organizations—because we will ultimately resemble those with whom we assemble.

ACTIVATION EXERCISES
Ask the Holy Spirit to show you who you’ve let into your inner circle of trust that should be moved out. Ask Him what your relationship and interaction should look like.
Ask the Holy Spirit to reveal any organizations that you have affiliated yourself with that you should not be part of in this season. Ask Him for an exit strategy, record it, and implement it immediately.

Ngubi Valery aka IL CIPH3R

N.𝕌.𝕀 ℙℝ𝔼𝕊𝔼N𝕋𝕊
*𝕋𝕙𝕚𝕟𝕜𝕚𝕟𝕘 𝕪𝕠𝕦 𝕔𝕒𝕟*

We often limit ourselves because we don't think we can achieve something. Today it may be hard for you to imagine that you can live without dessert or that you can live below your means. It doesn't mean it's impossible, though; it's only your subjective opinion, not a fact of life.

Moreover, thinking that you're unlikely to win means that you'll put in less effort than you could. Why would you work your fingers to the bone if you were uncertain of success?

Mountain climbing has made it particularly clear to me. When you approach the route thinking that it's beyond your abilities, you won't do your best. After all, why try your best if you know that you aren't going to climb it anyway?

You'll most likely give up when you encounter the first obstacle, while a
person thinking they can climb it will fight as hard as they can to keep climbing. In the end, the person that doesn't believe in their abilities will give up along the way while the person that is certain of their abilities will reach the top.

Periodically try things that you think are outside of your ability with a positive attitude and the belief that you can succeed. Chances are you'll get a positive surprise and achieve something you thought was beyond your reach.

Ngubi Valery
IL~CIPH3R