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Good day mums. Please my son's bones are very weak. Especially when he sleeps and you hold him you will think something had happened to him but no. He's very active and walked at 1 year three months. He's two years now but still walks like someone who just started walking. His body is very soft and people fear to carry him because they think they might break him. I'm so scared especially when I wake up from sleep and try to hold him, as if there's no life in the bones but God forbids it. He looks healthy though.
Please mummies help me on what to and how to handle him properly. I'm a first time mum please .

The issue could be coming from his diet. He isn’t getting enough nutrients to support his growth.
Kids are not fully developed from the womb even when born at 9months especially the brain. The first 2 to 3 years are super critical in helping the brain and other parts of the body. In the first year they’d get that most of their nutritional needs from breastmilk, subsequent years depends on the food we feed them. Unfortunately some of us as parent run into issues where our little ones would only eat with a wrestle.
Tell you what, it somehow related to how we started solids with them after the breastfeeding.
Baby has been on breastmilk for early part of it years, now when it time for solids, we expect when we put the food they accept.
Yes some kids would accept but not all.
You leave your home country to a different country with different food and culture, it would definitely take you some time to settle in and get use to their food. So the first line of action is patience. You have to be very patient.
There is an article on how to start solids and help your baby like food on my page.
Now let’s see what you can do
Start it all over, like you are starting solids. Don’t concentrate on the banku and others. Concentrate on foods that is done with simple ingredients.
Start with koko , or mashed Kenkey blended with groundnuts. Then you can buy the cowbell milk powder and add. Don’t start giving him too much at a time to overwhelm him. Just a little. Then get his favorite biscuit. When he finishes it, he gets biscuits.
So withdraw all kinds of biscuits, ice creams or toffees he takes and make that as a reward. If he takes the food he gets the biscuit.
Another thing that helped me was feeding bottle
I would pour it in the feeding bottle and give it to the child
They like being independent, so by giving them the bottle you are telling them they can do it
So while running around and playing before I see it finished.
If you promise biscuit make sure you give, else they won’t take you serious
Now moving on, when you are eating yourself wash their hands and let them u join you. You can put the food on the floor and get them to sit like they are eating as well. While you are eating play with them, don’t let them feel you are going to feeding them, when they engulfed in the play you put a morsel in the mouth, because of the play they won’t realize what happened and before you know eat a few morsels have gone down.
Another trick is, get them to hold the spoon while you hold the tip on the spoon, then you both scoop the food together and put it in his mouth. I usually use the table spoon for that, it makes them feel big.
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Michelle, the 7 year old who was r@ped and mur?dered by a loved one.
Am going to tell you this; you have to be careful who you leave your child with.
I was watching this series today on Discovery channel and the title was Breaking Homicide.
The whole story was about a little girl, named Michelle, 7 years old who was r***d and found murdered in the bush not far from her home.
So she left home to the play ground which is about 5 minutes from her house with her brothers and cousin. Her grandma’s house was so close to the play ground that she could see the playground from her window. Her grandmother could stand at the window and literally see everything that is going on in the playground where she had gone to play with her 2 brothers and cousin. Along the line her cousin said he wanted some candies. So her elder brother went with her cousin to get the candies which was 10 minutes away from the playground. That leaves her with her younger brother in the playground. After some minutes he also leaves to their grandma leaving only Michelle in the play ground.
But that wasn’t anything alarming because his grandmother could literally see everything from her window and this is a safe neighborhood we are talking about where everybody knew everybody.
So when her younger brother gets to grandma she asks where Michelle was and he said Michelle was still in the playground. So grandmother leaves immediately to go bring Michelle. But when she gets to the playground Michelle was nowhere to be found. Her elder brother also comes back from buying candy and he also said he didn’t see Michelle when he was asked. All this disappearance happened in approximately ten minutes.
Her family is very scared now so they start searching for her frantically in the neighborhood and since it was a small community all the neighbors joined in her search. After a while she was reported missing to the police. After two days of vigorous search she was found in the bush not far from her house, assa?ulted and murd?ered.
That was a scary sight that shook the whole community. It was first of it kind to happen in that neighborhood.
Now the investigation is on for her murd?erer.
Along the investigation they found out her father had come to pick her up within that short time frame of 10minutes when she was alone in the playground.
He took her with him in his car to go buy candies. Her parents were not together but they lived in the same neighborhood.
According to him when he dropped her off he told her to go inside the house (grandma’s house) but her attention was on her best friend Tammy who was standing with her dad.
But grandma said she didn’t see Michelle. Was her father lying? Did he know more?
Before I conclude on her father, who was Tammy. Tammy was Michelle’s best friend, they were classmates and their mothers were friends. They were so close that they could spend days at each other’s house.
But who was Tammy’s father? According to Michelle’s father, Tammy was with her father in front of their house when he dropped Michelle in front of grandma’s house.
So that means the last people to have seen Michelle before her brutal de@th was Michelle’s father, Tammy’s father and Tammy.
Among these three who was the killer. Tammy was also 7 just like Michelle, and she was a female without p3niz to r**e. And could a 7 years old stra~ngle another 7 years old to de@th. So Tammy was ruled out. That leaves us with two men.
Michelle’s father was a known alco-holic.
Let’s get into Tammy’s father’s profile. His wife described him as the most loving man before marriage but after marriage he changed. He beat her and r@pe her. Unknown to her he was doing same to his daughter, Tammy.
During the investigation, Tammy said 24 hours after Michelle went missing she was driving with her dad and he pointed in the bushes where she was later found and sarcastically said what if she is just lying there.
He started ass@lting Tammy when she was just 5 years and he would threaten to kill the whole family if she spoke up.
Tammy said once when Michelle had visited them he was caressing Michelle’s hair and rubbing his hands on her back while she Tammy was in the bathroom. When she came out and saw that she immediately rushed and pulled Michelle away from him but Michelle didn’t understand her actions. As they were kids they continued playing.
Tammy’s father was jobless then, so he’d always stay at home while Tammy’s mother went to work and that made the worse.
Now before I conclude on this story, let me ask you a series of questions?
How well do you know your child’s friend/ friends/ best friends
How well do you know their parents
What is their family values
Apart from talking to your child, are you observing other things like how he or she reacts around certain people?
Do you check their panties for anything unusual?
Do you observe any unusual behavior or sudden behavioral change?
The list goes on and on
As a parent, your job is never done. I know we can’t do all, but let’s give them the utmost protection we can.
If your child is fond of certain adults, read on between the lines.
Pedophil3s have a nice way of connecting to children such that you would never suspect them.
Our boys are not left out, this can happen to either a boy or a girl.
Ask your little ones questions and be involved in their lives.
Back to our story, all evidences are pointing to Tammy’s father but guess what he is still roaming the streets free.
This event took place in the 80s where there was no DNAs. A little boy in that community kept this in his mind and he is now a police officer. He vividly remembers everything and decides to reopen the case. When they searched for Tammy’s criminal record, he has more than 10 cases plus other crimes.
The question is all these decades that he was roaming for free how many more has he done what he did to Michelle to.
Now that little boy who’s turned a police officer is taking up the case.
My dear people, let’s keep our little ones safe. That monster could be your neighbor, uncle or even spouse. Be your child’s keeper!!!