Throw In the Towel

7 Health Questions to Ask a Mother

There are predictable illnesses that recur in family history from generation to generation. Some features of our development are almost 90% similar to those of our mothers. It is important to find a moment and ask your parents, especially the mother, what can be done to prevent the course of certain diseases.

Here are a few questions you should be asking your mom right now.
1. "Did we have cardiovascular disease in our family?"
2. “Mom, when did you get your period and go through menopause?”
3. "Did you have any problems with pregnancy and childbirth?"
4. “Has anyone in our family ever had cancer?”
5. "Do you get migraines?"
6. "Do you have skin problems?"
7. “Were there mentally ill people in our family?”

7 THINGS YOU SHOULD KEEP SECRET. ADVICE OF THE SAGES:

🔑 The first thing to keep secret, say the wise men, is your far-reaching plans. Keep quiet until this plan is fulfilled. Any of our ideas are not only not perfect, they have a huge number of weak points, which are very easy to hit and destroy everything.

🔑 The second thing that the sages recommend is not to share the secret about your charity. A good deed is a rarity in this world, and that is why it must be cherished like the apple of an eye. Don't praise yourself for good deeds. Pride will immediately see and take away all the good that came as a result of this charity.

🔑 The third thing that the wise men do not recommend to talk about is their asceticism. Do not talk left and right about your restrictions in eating, sleeping, sexual relations, etc. Physical asceticism is beneficial only if it is combined with an emotional component.

🔑 The fourth thing you should be silent about is your courage, heroism. Someone gets external tests, and someone internal. External trials are visible, therefore people receive awards for them, but no one notices overcoming internal trials, therefore no awards are awarded for them.

🔑 The fifth thing you should not talk about is spiritual knowledge. Spiritual knowledge has different levels and should be revealed only upon reaching a certain level of purity of consciousness. The main mistake of a novice bearer of truth is the desire to share too high spiritual knowledge, which, instead of bringing good to a person, only confuses and even frightens him even more.

🔑 The sixth thing you should not especially share with others is to talk about your domestic conflicts and in general about your family life. Remember: the less you talk about the problems in your family, the stronger and more stable it will be. A quarrel is getting rid of the negative energy that has accumulated in the process of communication.

🔑 The seventh thing you should not talk about is the ugly words that were heard from someone. You can get your boots dirty on the street, or you can get your mind dirty. And the person who, having come home, tells everything that he heard stupid on the way, is no different from the person who came home and did not take off his shoes.