Fejiro Arams

As I graduately come to the end of the 21days writing, I began to realize somethings....

1. You never how much you can without taking a first step.
Taking the initiative puts you on the side of the angels. Things begins to piece themselves together to make things work for the one that takes a bold, resilient step towards their desire.

2. Creativity is a product of request. You can never know much creative you can be until certain demands are made on it.

3. Consistency is first about SHOWING UP. If you noticed, there were times I wrote in the night after a long day. I just show up to start everything.

4. Consistency is HARD... As humans showing up at a function can be daily can be hard sometimes because you might not be in the emotionally high state. Simply put, you might not feel like doing it. Boredom, fatigue craws in and the tendency to skip the activity comes in. The easiest thing to do at that time is to give up on the goal and give in to tendencies.

5. You are a product of what you eat. Nobody is sadder than a man who wants good but keeps feeding on bad things. Your life will not be consistent with your desires. And living against your values, dampens your self-worth and when your self worth is affected, almost everything that has to do with the realization of worth life goals is tempered. I have difficult materials in different life-applicational discussion, hence it became easy to bring out something.

6. Only a reader can write... If you don't read, you will be stranded when it comes to the matter of dispensing knowledge. Studying makes creative in applying life-altering principles.

7. A good mentor is a pure blessing from God. I didn't tell my mentor I was going to write, I only wanted to challenge myself. But I watched his consistency and started imitation... A mentor directly or indirectly brings out the best in you by themselves becoming better so you too can learn. A mentor is not someone that teaches only, a mentor is one who keep raising the bar of excellence for himself. Doing so, imputes hunger for a greater sense of purpose. Choose your mentors wisely.

8. There is only one way pay an inconsistent man: Ignoring him.

Some way, somehow I have been able to recognize some people checking my bio, liking my posts, commenting etc. This is beautiful, but peradventure I wasn't posting as I said, nobody will care. They won't be angry, but they will just ignore because it will be a waste of time looking at someone doing nothing.

9. Until you create, push a concept, people don't receive of your beautiful giftings... Just do something about your gift.

Series: Purpose Driven Life
Day 17: Slave-master 3: Emotions part 1

As I write this part, I wish to say this: Humans possess emotion but not supposed to be emotional or possessed by emotions.

Emotional slavery have the reason for many unreasonably damage in wonderful relationships. Emotional mastery will therefore build, strengthen and sustain powerful relationships.

Before we proceed, let's define EMOTION.

Emotion is strong feeling deriving from one's circumstances, mood, or relationships with others.

Emotions are built into us to enjoy life with people and also enjoy the presence of God.

Imagine a world without emotions, tasteless and empty. God put emotion into man so he can enjoy creation too.

But at the fall, what was given to be dominated and controlled became the dominator.

Most of the world's greatest problems are caused by people who had little or no control over their emotions.

Lack of control of emotions has lead to the following:
1. Failure due to emotional procrastination.
2. Unplanned pregnancy due to emotional abuse of sexual relationships.
3. Broken homes
4. Leaving in sin continously.
5. Spiritual weakness, laziness.
6. Gluttony due to emotional eating.
7. Sickness due to emotional unrest.
8. Mental illness.
9. Addictions
Etc.....

You can even add to the list and you can see how this emotions has done many things to humanity to promote the works of darkness because until one can control our EMOTIONS... We can't walk in all the fullness of God's giftings for us.

We continue tomorrow....

Series: Purpose Driven Life
Day 16: Dominated-Dominator 5(Substance slavery)
Man have become a slave to a SUBSTANCE that was created to aid him enjoy the fulfilment of his purpose on earth.

Young are under this wickedness...
The old are exempted....
The rich as well as the poor are under the grip of this evil.

It promises fantasy but only ties those who oblige to its appeals to a chain of endless pain and repeated regrets....

People called it.... Substance Abuse.... But in real sense... It is Substance Slavery!!!

Wine is a mocker.......
Solomon David

Supposed responsible men have ended up in the gutter with no idea how they got there..

Some young people are no longer thinking straight because a substance is making a slave out of them.

Several have gone too early to the grave because of the effects of these substances on them.

If you are already under the influence of any substance like hard drugs and other substances... Seek help!!!

First of all, you need to give your life to Christ... Then seek a professional help..

We continue tomorrow....

Series: Purpose Driven Life
Day 12: Dominated-Dominator 3(Sin's lie exposed)

Under this part of the series, Dominated-Dominator... I mentioned that the reason things began to dominate man is because sin has a craving that seeks to enslave anyone that engages in it.

He does this by:

1. Seduction: Making the acts of sin appealing and irresistibly promising to give lifelong pleasure.

2. Deception: Following seduction is a set of lies about God, yourself and your destiny. If it can paint God as the bad guy for withholding from consuming what will kill you.

3. Intimidation: Make God look so angry and incapable of forgiving you and helping you. And also making to look so bad and unfit for help... Miserable sinner..Unworthy of God's love.. You are naked!!! . Deserving of every devilish projections...

Then it makes you its slave by repeating the cycle, but I have come to expose to you the lie.
.... No sin intention is a one-off.... There is always a bitter stink at the end of that pleasurable experience it promises..... God wants to stop sin from dominating you. .... Sin affects you negatively and as a loving Father, He can watch you swallow what will kill you. So He says DON'T. .... God can forgive even the worse of sinners if you can come to Him today..... Even if you are naked, God can still cloth you with His glory. He provided it through Jesus Christ..... You are worthy of love..... God can help break off that addiction..... Surrendering to God isn't hopeless because it is the only way.

If this relates to you in any way, just know this.... That God gave His only Begotten Son for you... How much more will He not give you the power to be free from the bo***ge of sin.

Will you call God and say this simple prayer:

HELP ME, LORD.

We continue tomorrow....