Living with Naomi

One way to a woman’s heart? Give her money, be giving her money and continue giving her money

I almost missed a good man because I thought I had time…

When I talk about resilience in men, my husband will always be my first example… not because he was loud, but because he stayed when I gave him every reason to leave.

When he first asked me out, I didn’t even give him a fair chance.

I acted like I didn’t see his messages.

Sometimes I would open them… read everything… and still not reply.

I did it for 4 solid months.

And I expected him to get tired and leave.

But he didn’t.

He kept coming back… gently. Consistently. Without anger. Without pressure. Just… there.

Then one day, I don’t even know how it happened… I just replied him.

Looking back now, I realize I almost missed a good man.

And somehow, he still chose me.

That kind of love doesn’t shout. It stays.

As a lady from 25 and above, you honestly have no business dating just for fun.

At that stage, your time, emotions, and energy are too valuable to keep entertaining unserious relationships.

Some men will spend years with you, enjoy all the benefits of your presence, then suddenly leave to marry someone else they met few months ago.

Date with purpose. Ask questions. Know where the relationship is heading.

Not every relationship must lead to marriage, but don’t intentionally waste your good years on people who already know they are not serious about you.