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If you don't know, children are human beings too and they have emotions.

Why is it that anytime Obi comes to tell you that he is displeased with something, you immediately frown your face like he has no right to be displeased with anything?

Getting angry is not only meant for adults you know🌚

One pertinent thing that is important in parenting is allowing your children express their feelings. You don't shut him up when he's trying to say he is not pleased with something.

Your job is to teach him the best way to express his feelings, especially when angry and not to shut him out.

Moreover,when children are not allowed to express their feelings,they tend to bottle it up and trust me continuously doing that in other not to get into trouble with mummy,daddy or teacher will eventually lead to an emotional problem.

It becomes a habit and it will be very hard to break out of it. Even when they become adults,it tends to affect built relationships.

So the next time,you want to shut Jude up for trying to pour out his feelings, remember you are causing more harm than good.

I hope this helps🥰

We are most likely to focus on the person than the problem.

Instead of seeing that he's a good girl that just did something stupid,you see and label her the stupid one.

So, when your child starts acting like what you labelled him or her to be,you will still complaining.

Immediately you start focusing on the problem and not your child. You have saved yourself a lot of emotional stress.

Next time, when your baby girl does a naughty thing,just know she's a good girl doing a naughty thing

This applicable to not only parents but to everyone who has children under their care.

I hope this helps 😊

I come on behalf of the children and especially the last borns in the house.

In your giving of gifts and celebration, please parents and elder siblings remember us☺️. We need to be showed some love too. Don't you think?😌 At least for all the errands that we don't have the strength to go for but we still somehow manage to go.

I'm not on my own on this matter,I am just the spokes person.🤩

Anyways, let's not forget that God is love and he has showed us the highest kind of love.
I am sure you know what he did🌚🥰.

If you don't, check John 3:16.

Enjoy the rest of your day🥰