Marriage Builders

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DEAR YOUNG GUYS AT THE AGE OF 25 TO 30

▪Don't make mistakes some of our Fathers or Senior Brothers made.

▪Marry now with the little you have. Don't wait to be a millionaire, Have kids early so you can grow with them. Grow with your kids and succeed with your wife.

▪You will never finish making money or
achieving your plans. You might still not succeed
at your target year. So start your life early, with
consistency you will grow.

▪My father said this to me: When i was 25, i was
talking about making billions before i marry.
Many years later, billions didn't come, yet no kid
no wife... I had an opportunity to marry the most beautiful love of my life very early, But my fear was, can i really take care of her? But right now She's married with
Four grown up children.
The guy that married her
was still schooling then, but had the courage.
They worked hard and succeeded together.

▪So please if you can feed yourself, you can feed your wife. You have to believe it, marry early, don't wait.

▪Stay away from abortion. Don't make our mistakes, I see my childhood friends play with their kids. Most of them are not doing as well as me.. But they are happier with their families..

▪Trust me it isn't money only, but Rather your Maturity, your happiness depends entirely on your wisdom and the way you Handle Life. with a well planned life they are happier.

▪Trust me it isn't money, What is our problem? Build mansion? buy the latest Car in Town? marry Sharon Stone type? but still we don't have those things we dreamt of, and of course the years we wasted, we can never have them neverrrr!!!_

✔Please don't be 60yrs old and your kids will still
be in their 20's..What are you supposed to be at
that age? Their grand father.

▪Please young men, take my advice seriously.

Marry, don't be afraid, that girl you are finding too many fault in has many good qualities if you look well.

▪Don't think you will get every thing before you
settle down.

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DO YOU THINK YOU ARE IN LOVE?

You met him through a friend... You got talking... More talking... From saying hi once a while to talking on a daily basis

Seeing each other off....to being there for each other...emotions started to build....you both knew each other daily activities.... He became a huge part of your life...... You would quarrel like lovers....settle again and the bond for you kept growing stronger

This continued for 3years....you assumed you were in love....friends assumed too....that was risky..... for you, you concluded this was the man you've been waiting for until you received the shock of your life....3 years later

'I only saw you as a friend... Nothing more' uttered him!

'That's a joke right??? You wasted my time for 3years and you saw all that as being a an ordinary friend...why did you lead me on? How many people will I have to explain that to? Why did you paint the wrong picture to me and my friends.... Why did you take me for granted.... Why all this.....why all that? You thought.

You were heartbroken..... You cried your eyes out....this can't be happening.... Where do you start from???

What"s my message? Never to ASSUME!!!!

Alot of people are in that shoe today.....assuming what is not true....that he calls you everyday doesn't mean he loves you....that he runs errand for your mum is not a sign that he has anything for you...he takes you shopping and seeing movies and some silly ones even resort to s*x..that is not a sign of love...even if he is cleaning the grave of your ancestors doesn't mean he wants to spend the rest of his life with you.....anybody can be Nice!!!!

Don't allow any one deceive you and make a mess of your emotions.... Don't open your life to someone who doesn't deserve you.....

Any man that cannot walk up to you to tell you how he feels about you should keep his emotions to himself!!!

You don't just like our men smart alone.....you want them bold and verbal about emotions too, isn't it!

The same applies to the brothers.... Cooler ministry is not love....anybody can be a helper of destiny....I mean like being kindhearted....if she cannot tell you to your face if she accepts you or not...then let her keep her emotions!!!!

No wonder, a lot of ladies have turned down good men for an assumption...'I think he loves me....I think he wants to marry me".....

Seriously? I think?

If the brother doesn't understand how he feels or is shy....please walk up to him and ask him

"Uncle we have been talking a while...what's the plan? Where are we going to????'

Don't allow anyone use your emotions to play gamble!!!!!!!

I have so many awesome brothers in my life....we play...we gist....I mean we are very close but in the midst of all these....we know our boundaries.... We know nothing emotional can come in...the relationship is well defined

You can talk about everything.....I think its time to evaluate "what you call relationship"

If you have been assuming...... Then make the necessary adjustment!!!!!

Communicate like an adult!!! It is children that still cannot differentiate between lust and love!!!!

You are a MAN! then??? SPEAK!!!!

In conclusion.....

Are you really dating? Or in love with an idea? Or enjoying an illusion?

Well.....WAKE UP!!!!

I trust this blesses someone today...

Richards Johnson