Socute Benjamin Relationship Tips

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AS A MAN, YOU NEED TO KNOW THESE
1. Everyone has a voice but money is the volume. Work hard, have assets in your name as a man, acquire wealth.

2. At 25+, your circle should be discussing about open business, investing, fitness, escaping 8-5 jobs, self development and financial freedom.

3. Life is a ruthless battle, the earlier you sweat, the less you will bleed in this battle. The world is cruel, brutal, nasty and short.

4. Conquer your lust. This is a golden handshake with your future.

5. Very few people truly care about you. Society will leave you on the road to rot. Almost all of your friends will ditch you the moment your situation turning into something chaotic that lies beyond their expectations.

6. Hard times and moments will pass. It is always very dark just before dawn. Keep it cool and never lose your optimism. Don't loosen the grip.

7. Life is a MARATHON, not a sprint. Therefore, be patient, patience is not the ability to wait, its how you react while waiting. Be Consistent. Be Persistent. One day all those late nights and early mornings will pay off.

8. Nobody cares about you. Nobody owes you anything. Most will be Jealous when you Succeed. You’ll be Shocked at who Abandons you when you Fail.

9. Don't chase s*x, food and entertainment. You will succumb to them and end up miserable and depressed.

10. Happiness and fun are a femicentric construct. They don't exist in the dictionary of MEN. Chase meaningful purpose NOT "happiness and fun".

11. If you meet a man talking to himself while gesticulating, Don't interfere, he is: - aligning his MISSION with his VISION, organizing his WISDOM to build his KINGDOM, chiselling his MINDSET to improve his SKILLET, tuning his SOUL with his GOAL.

12. Gambling is addictive and destructive. Don't accept to be a slave.

13. Hard times create strong men. Strong men create good times.

14. If you impregnate a woman, take responsibilities. You knew the consequences of raw s*x. No matter your age, take responsibility. If you're not ready, use a condom.

15. The world will ask you who you are, and if you don't know, the world will tell you.

16. If you are sitting in a high table and have access to opportunities, help those who have capability but lack access to opportunity. We're all fighting the battle to success and the path can be rough and frustrating. Be a Pillar not an Obstacle.

17. Nobody cares about your pitfalls! The journey to GREATNESS is long, windy and rough.

18. Nobody cares about you. Nobody owes you anything. Most will be Jealous when you Succeed. You’ll be Shocked at who Abandons you when you Fail.

19. People WILL Let you down. Accept and Embrace these Maxims. Turn your Mind into a ruthless Weapon.

20. PROTECT yourself. No one will do it for you. It's on you. No one is coming to save you.

21. Time is non refundable, use it with intention

22. Have a vision. Starve your distractions, feed your focus. Set goals. Read every day. Live inspired

23. If you don't go after it, you won't have it

24. Make mistakes and pursue failure

25. Take mistakes as lessons
Focus is the key

26. Study hard what interests you the most

27. Don't worry about what other people think. Don't pay attention to what others think of you.

28. Skills are more valuable than your grades

29. Excuses make today easy, but tomorrow harder. Discipline make today hard, but tomorrow easy. Choice is yours.

30. You cannot climb the ladder of success with your hands in your pockets.

31. Hungry stomach,an empty pocket and a broken heart can teach the best lessons of life.

32. If your mind is weak, your body and soul will suffer

This man is trending because he's simping for a lady in his latest movie. And who makes this movie to trend?, It's the weemen. Every weemen loves a rich simp as long as the money keep flowing.

How can a man buys an entire company and building just to get the number of a wuman he admires?. That's the greatest simping of all time, it's an abuse of wealth. Such thing has never happened and it can never happen, only in Nollywood movies.

Nigerian lazy weemen are so quick to spread the movie like wild fire because the guy buys the woman heaven and earth and takes her to the moon and back. But they will never see that in no occassion did the girl bills the guy even when she and her business went down financially.

They'll never learn that the girl was a working class lady with a good paying job and she wasn't a broke jobless girl from a poor home. They'll not see that the girl has a side hustle (a perfume store) and she never depend on the guy for survival. They'll not see the part where the girl rejected his money because she has always been the one providing in her previous relationships.

Because of this simping movie modern weemen will be waiting that one rich simp from Anambra will come and propose to her and marry her out from her broke family. They think that life is like Nollywood movies.

They should keep waiting till they turn into their sheng nu age so that I'll use them to teach the younger ones.

Mr. Macaroni and the half a Billion Debt…

First of all, all debt is not bad debt.

There is no successful business person who is not heavily indebted. None.

If you don’t have debts, your business is still a small business and you have not taken up projects bigger than you.

The first day I met with Oga INNOSON of INNOSON motors, he didn’t waste time to share about his multi billion debt exposure. I smiled because only intelligent people are that free.

Elon Musk’s liquidity comes from using his Tesla shares to collect loans. So while he’s the richest person in the world, he’s also the most indebted individual in the world.

Yes, Nigeria is a CASH system where most people purchase homes and cars with cash. Debt is considered slavery and cash is king. But in developed economies, credit is king and those whose credit scores are great, have more access to the bank’s money. When

Unfortunately, in Nigeria, most people in debt are in bad debt. They borrowed money to SHOW OFF. A lot of Nigerian influencers are in bad debts - flying first class internationally just to impress their fans to living lavishly with borrowed money. They abuse debts and make all debts look like bad debts.

If you are in bad debt, don’t freak out. Calm down. If you are indebted to individuals, meet them face to face and tell them you will like to arrange a monthly repayment plan with them. Structure the repayment in a way that makes it easy for you to fulfill your obligations without pressure. If they refuse, ask them to go to court. No court will force you to pay what you can’t afford to pay. This is also a lesson to people who freely lend millions to friends and family without collateral, you are not financially responsible. Don’t tag it “good heart”, it’s a foolish heart.

Bad debt can be fixed and good debt is a necessity for growth.

I have never borrowed money for pleasure. Never. But my businesses have borrowed for big projects and we have never missed a repayment.

If you are a business owner, do not fear debt but be intentional not to get into bad debts.