Thevine Help Care

Just Incase you never had a blissful relationship with your parents and guidance as you grew up, if you believe it's not too late, then you can have what you desire.

First, accept the fact that They(parents or guidance) treated you the way they did based on their understanding, how they parent you is how they know. Forgive them and grow

Second, be to them what they never were to you, be kind, supportive, patience, e t c

Third, make up your mind not to recycle the system that broke you.

I'm rooting for you!

Remember "a blissful relationship between children their parent and their guide is possible"


Thevine Help Care

"He won't listen!"
"She writes when he feels like!"
"He's always distracted!"
These statements are a sign of frustrated teacher...... I'm sorry about that.

One sure way to deal with this is to apply "The Team Work Principle"

Now this is how it works ;
When engaging your kids in a lesson, starts by asking questions. This questions most times should be as basic as possible and should be a foundation for what is about you be learnt.

Next, start the process of the lesson using procedures. Remember to make it as simple as possible.

Next, ask the pupil to try what you have just done and guide them through. Repeat this stage a few times.

Finally, ask the pupil to recite the procedures of the lesson step by step, make corrections them give an exercises

NB: Every child needs to be guided, Even when you know they've known it.

I thought we agreed that the foundation of a thing is Important and it determines the kind of structure to be erected?

Why are you now saying " leave him, he's just a child, when he grows he'll learn?"

Why??

Thevine Help Care

The Best Advice I Give To Parents.

In my 8 years of being around kids,I can confidently say that "every child no matter the family demography , age, school or religious circle has at least once a day been presented the opportunity to choose"

My Simple Advice is this; Teach, Show & Pray for your Kids to make Good Choices!

"Under normal circumstances a child between the age of 4 at most 7 knows what's good and bad and is eligible to make age appropriate decisions "

Don't take it from me please verify .

The earlier you start the better, be like your father God set the options to decide over and show them how to choose by choosing.

√ Allow your kids to make age-appropriate decisions.

√ Encourage critical thinking.

√ Model good decision-making.

√ Help them learn from mistakes.

√ Discuss indecisiveness.

√ Provide them with support for decisions.

√ Encourage goal setting.

√ Teach your child to handle money properly.

√ Teach kids about the consequences of their decisions.

√ Encourage kids to take risks.

Because there will always be a juncture in your relationship with your child that things will not make sense to you and them.

Teach, Show & Pray them into good decision making such that even as these disalignment occur they'll choose to stand Right .

The truth is: if we're sincere for some of us, our parents didn't do much to make us "this good" just like the prodigal son we came to ourselves and made/make decisions and choices that changed ourselves to our and their awe!

I see you do Right!

St. Thevine Yaoh