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The center focus for this month will be on distant Relationship...

THE SIX QUALITIES YOU SHOULD NOTE BEFORE YOU MAKE DECSION TO MARRY HIM/HER

1. MARRY YOUR SPEAKING MATE: Marry someone with whom you can communicate and understand each other. Communication is extremely important in marriage. Don't marry someone who, when you say 'A,' responds with 'Z.' You can't enjoy a marriage if there is a schism between your speaking and understanding levels. Because their wives can't engage in any meaningful intellectual discussion, many men go to bars to hang out with friends and gist until 11 p.m. Many women prefer to spend time with their friends because they know their husband's mentality on important issues and discussions is very low. Marry your talking partner.
2. MARRY YOUR 'SCHOOL' MATE: By this, I mean marry someone with whom you can learn and grow together. Don't marry a 'Mr Know All' or a 'Miss Know All'. Marry someone who is closed to new ideas, new ways of doing things, or new innovations. Marriage is a wonderful institution. You will continue to learn from day one until the day you die. Marry your ‘schoolmate,' someone who is eager to learn alongside you.
3. MARRY YOUR SPIRITUAL MATE: Marriage is more than a social contract. It also represents a spiritual union. Marry someone who believes in the same God you do. Don't marry someone who believes in God differently than you do. Two cannot work together unless they agree ( Amos 3:3, Joshua 23: 11-15, 2 Corinthians 6:14-18). Even in marriage, the spiritual governs the physical. Examine the person you want to marry for spiritual compatibility.
4. MARRY YOUR SPENDING MATE: Do not marry a stingy person. There are numerous expenses to consider when planning a wedding. A stingy guy in courtship will not become a generous husband after marriage. Don't marry a lady that has the financial philosophy of ' My husband's money is our money, but my money is my money'. Marry someone who believes in the dignity of labor and is willing to work, not a slacker who only wants to be a consumer and not a contributor. Marry someone who is willing to spend and be spent for the family's growth and success.
5. MARRY YOUR S*X MATE: Marry someone with whom you share s*xual feelings. S*xual attraction is not a sin. It's a natural instinct that God gave to everyone. S*x is crucial to the success of any marriage. If you don't have any emotional feelings for a man, don't marry him. Leave her alone if you don't have any feelings for her. A s*xual being is also a spiritual being. No matter how spiritual you are in your marriage, you will not be praying 24 hours a day. You won't be reading the Bible or worshiping God all the time. There will be s*x! You will fall in love! You'll be flirting with each other! You will have children. So, marry someone with whom you can connect s*xually. It will make your marriage so much more enjoyable!
6. MARRY YOUR SOCIAL MATE: Do not marry someone with whom you will not be proud to go out. Don't marry someone you'll be embarrassed to introduce to others. Marry someone with whom you feel at ease. Marry someone with whom you are socially compatible. Don't marry someone who is anti-social.

SEVEN (7) WRONG THINGS SINGLE LADIES DOES WHILE IN RELATIONSHIP.

1. When you visit a man's house, don't take things without his consent or permission, no matter how small it is, or how close you are to him. take it or leave it, it's amount to stealing and trust men are very sensitive and it will surely end the whole thing...

2. If you have a date with a man, don't go there with your girlfriend(s) without his consent or the permission of the man. Or start making orders of things without his consent, he may not be prepared for the two of you and besides some ladies have lost their man to their friends owing to this attitude...

3. Stop telling a man a particular amount of money he is going to give you when you come around no matter your financial difficulties, such attitudes is for prostitutes and can even make you loose your future husband, because the man will think that's how you go about striking deals with different men...

4. Ladies, please stop asking your man if his mother is dead or alive, that question is very embarrassing and raises a red flag alert. Remember one day you will also be a mother too.

5. Don't come into a man's life and start creating problems between the man's family and his friends, apply wisdom, use your discretion and be wise. once his friends hates you. I don't think you are safe no matter how beautiful you are.

6. Please STOP visiting a man empty handed. Aunty, even if it's a loaf of bread, buy and go visiting, it shows you are reasonable and responsible. You can't come empty hand only to collect and go, use your brain.

7. Sit down with your man and discuss business or future plans and agendas with him. listen to him and observe him, look at him from 20 years ahead. Stop thinking that only tatatata or wotowoto is what you can afford or bring to the table. Be more resourceful... Most ladies don't care about this, they only say am catching cruise and vibes by eating pepper soup and transport fare that's why you end up marrying useless men..