Transformtheconformed

Please read this article and let's start to correct ourselves where we've been doing it wrong

*AT 17, l AM PAINED!🥵🥵😟*

Have you heard or read the news of late?

I mean the latest killing by ritualist of about 17 years of age!

At 17 he already mastered the act of killing😥

Not a fowl,
Not a rat,
Not a goat,
Not a snake,
But a Human.

At 17 he was already a Commander In Chief of a gang🤔

At 17, he is already in a relationship and had a girl friend without supervision😟

At 17, he didn't just set his victim up to be killed by an older person, rather, he did it himself by strangling her neck without remorse!

We don't even kill a goat or a fowl by strangling: but to a human he did😔

At 17, he was so cruel that he could give orders for her head to be chopped off and roasted for ritual purpose.

How did he get the idea of killing to get rich at this age?🤔

Who inspired and led him into such?🤔

How come he had no remorse or pity for his victim?

What does he know about money and riches at just 17?

Kai! Who did this to us?😭

This boy didn't appear on earth, he was born.
He was raised by someone, how did he come to this point?

No body wakes up to do such without a motivating factor.
No one commits such cruel and sacrilegious act without mentorship☹️

Who do we blame for this?

At age two 2, you would see children ordering their parents arround and making mischievous demands, but the parents would smile and say "he or she is just a child."😳

At age three, chidlren would decide what food they are to be fed, not on any medical grounds, but out of sheer foolishness and naughtiness, yet the parents would oblige them.
Later on such parents would come up to bother people with their avoidable issues which they refused to avoid😏.

The family is set on the table to eat, but your precious child who is just 7 years of age would insist on eating something else, surprisingly, the ever kind parents who are so gracious, allow him or her to eat what he wants. Hmmmm!

When you correct them, they would say they are too young.

If you caution them, they would say you are being mean.

When you try to instill discipline in them, you get accused of being cruel and heartless.

Now the child has become a menace to the society, the same society he or she is supposed to join hands to build.

The burden you should have borne by raising them well and fine, you failed but now you expect pastors and teachers to turn your bandits and hoodlumic chidlren into a saint over night. Naaaa! it doesn't work that way🙄

Let's not deceive ourselves,
If they are too young to be corrected, they would be too corrupt to be commended.

If they are too young to be built, they would be too old to be reckoned with.

If they are too young to be taught, they would be too old to be tamed.

Parents and guardians, we must arise oh!

Most Schools have now watered down their disciplinary principles just to accommodate some spoilt rich kids who lack good home training.☹️

Here we are; at 17, he is so encumbered with the thought of becoming rich that he does not mind killling a human to achieve his goal.

It all started somewhere, the home, then the school, and of course course the society.

This is not what the government can curb or handle but what we all must rise to address.

It is the people that make up the government and not the other way round.

To the married and intending couples, keep the idea of having so many kids if you are not ready to take up responsibility for their well being and growth.

I can't stop to imagine, at 17 he wants to be rich to impress a girl or his friends. Perhaps to build houses and to show off by travelling here and there. And for that purpose, a lady's life has gone.😥

It's no time for the blame game, let's all put hands on the deck and work things out now.

At 17!
The only future he could think of is money and the best way to get it is by killing.😟

What would happen when he becomes 30 ?😟

Lord have mercy!

our son had his exams in a month’s time and she didn’t want to disrupt him with our broken marriage.

This was agreeable to me. But she had something more, she asked me to recall how I had carried her into out bridal room on our wedding day. She requested that every day for the month’s duration I carry her out of our bedroom to the front door ever morning. I thought she was going crazy. Just to make our last days together bearable I accepted her odd request.

I told Jane about my wife’s divorce conditions. . She laughed loudly and thought it was absurd. No matter what tricks she applies, she has to face the divorce, she said scornfully.

My wife and I hadn’t had any body contact since my divorce intention was explicitly expressed. So when I carried her out on the first day, we both appeared clumsy. Our son clapped behind us, daddy is holding mommy in his arms. His words brought me a sense of pain. From the bedroom to the sitting room, then to the door, I walked over ten meters with her in my arms. She closed her eyes and said softly; don’t tell our son about the divorce. I nodded, feeling somewhat upset. I put her down outside the door. She went to wait for the bus to work. I drove alone to the office.

On the second day, both of us acted much more easily. She leaned on my chest. I could smell the fragrance of her blouse. I realized that I hadn’t looked at this woman carefully for a long time. I realized she was not young any more. There were fine wrinkles on her face, her hair was graying! Our marriage had taken its toll on her. For a minute I wondered what I had done to her.

On the fourth day, when I lifted her up, I felt a sense of intimacy returning. This was the woman who had given ten years of her life to me. On the fifth and sixth day, I realized that our sense of intimacy was growing again. I didn’t tell Jane about this. It became easier to carry her as the month slipped by. Perhaps the everyday workout made me stronger.

MARRIED OR NOT, YOU SHOULD READ THIS ...

“When I got home that night as my wife served dinner, I held her hand and said, I’ve got something to tell you. She sat down and ate quietly. Again I observed the hurt in her eyes.

Suddenly I didn’t know how to open my mouth. But I had to let her know what I was thinking. I want a divorce. I raised the topic calmly. She didn’t seem to be annoyed by my words, instead she asked me softly, why?

I avoided her question. This made her angry. She threw away the chopsticks and shouted at me, you are not a man! That night, we didn’t talk to each other. She was weeping. I knew she wanted to find out what had happened to our marriage. But I could hardly give her a satisfactory answer; she had lost my heart to Jane. I didn’t love her anymore. I just pitied her!

With a deep sense of guilt, I drafted a divorce agreement which stated that she could own our house, our car, and 30% stake of my company. She glanced at it and then tore it into pieces. The woman who had spent ten years of her life with me had become a stranger. I felt sorry for her wasted time, resources and energy but I could not take back what I had said for I loved Jane so dearly. Finally she cried loudly in front of me, which was what I had expected to see. To me her cry was actually a kind of release. The idea of divorce which had obsessed me for several weeks seemed to be firmer and clearer now.

The next day, I came back home very late and found her writing something at the table. I didn’t have supper but went straight to sleep and fell asleep very fast because I was tired after an eventful day with Jane. When I woke up, she was still there at the table writing. I just did not care so I turned over and was asleep again.

In the morning she presented her divorce conditions: she didn’t want anything from me, but needed a month’s notice before the divorce. She requested that in that one month we both struggle to live as normal a life as possible. Her reasons were simple:

YOUR WIFE IS YOU...
1. Your wife is number one priorities in your life.
2. Your wife is your best friend, be friendly with her.
3. Your wife need foreplay, don’t r**e her.
4. Your wife is not only good for s*x, carry her along in every issue.
5. Your wife is a gift, appreciate her.
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