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Dear Lady,

If you are at a point in your life where you are struggling to say yes to marrying a pastor even when the man seems to be God’s will for you, please read this 😊

No genuine pastor calls himself. Pastoral ministry is not a career choice; it is an assignment. It is purpose. Most men of God never planned to be pastors, apostles, or evangelists.

They were called, and some ran from it like Jonah until God stopped them.

Full post drops tomorrow by 7 pm

When it comes to relationships and marriage, you must understand a critical truth.

Yes, God does not hand anyone a finished product. He gives raw materials. And it is your responsibility to build, mould, and nurture what you desire to see.

But do not let this truth deceive you. Not every raw material is given to men to work on.

Some people can be shaped by human partnership, mentorship, and patience but others can only be transformed by the hand of God Himself.

Even though marriage requires effort, growth and intentionality, you must be discerning.

If there is something you hope to see in your marriage or in the person you want to journey with, ensure you are not tying yourself to someone whose raw materials are beyond human capacity.

Because if you do, frustration is guaranteed.

Understand this: marriage demands patience. But if others need 100% patience, you will need 200% because you will be doing the work of a spouse and the work that only God should be doing in that person’s life.

You will be laboring twice as hard just to produce what others experience with ease.

So while it is true that God gives raw materials in form of a spouse, choose the type you can actually build with, the kind that humans can work on. Not the kind that heaven has not yet processed.

Choose wisely. Your peace, your purpose, and your future depends on your decision.

Have a beautiful week ahead ❣️

Master the act of "Marking your territories until the enemy begins to see 'Keep Off: Danger Zone' in the territories of your home.

The single life is an ideal time to establish this spiritual foundation. Rather than just focusing on God bring me a man, begin to secure the home both of you will eventually build together.

I will teach you how to do that in my next post."