Christine Filip
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Passionate about supporting people:
- who want (a) beautiful long-term intimate relationship(s). Now.
15/06/2026
WHEN NOT BEING SEEN GETS IN THE WAY OF LOVE LATER ON
(Voor Nederlandse tekst, doorscrollen)
Not being seen is often not about what happened.
It is about what did not happen.
No gaze.
No attunement.
No: ‘I see you.’
No: ‘You matter.’
And that is why it can be so confusing.
You may think: ‘But I had nothing to complain about.’
Until you notice closeness feels risky.
Desire disappears.
You do everything yourself.
Your relationship starts feeling like being alone together. Cute, but not really. 🫠
Not being seen can make something inside you invisible.
And love begins where someone is truly seen again.
Contact me if you want to know more about how to let your love life flow again.
❤️Christine
Long-term authentic real love with joy
WANNEER NIET GEZIEN WORDEN LATER LIEFDE IN DE WEG ZIT
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Niet gezien worden is vaak niet wat er gebeurde.
Het is wat er níét gebeurde.
Geen blik.
Geen afstemming.
Geen: ‘Ik zie jou.’
Geen: ‘Jij doet ertoe.’
En juist daarom is het zo verwarrend.
Want je kunt denken: ‘Maar ik had toch niets te klagen?’
Tot je merkt dat nabijheid spannend voelt.
Dat verlangen wegzakt.
Dat je alles zelf doet.
Dat je relatie voelt als samen alleen zijn. Gezellig hoor. 🫠
Niet gezien worden maakt iets in jou onzichtbaar.
En liefde begint precies daar waar iemand weer écht gezien wordt.
Neem contact met mij op als je meer wilt weten over hoe je je liefdesleven weer fijn laat stromen.
❤️Christine
Jouw relatiecoach voor echte liefde die bij je past
Esther Perel (Thank you Ruth for your insights on and the correlation to seeking extreme experiences as not feel numb)
As visitors to Fiji, we accidentally found ourselves at Albinism Awareness Day in Suva.
A beautiful live band was playing, and for the first time I saw a style of partner dancing that deeply touched me.
People danced side by side. They changed partners naturally. Nobody was leading. Nobody was following. The direction emerged together.
As a relationship coach, I spend a lot of time talking about equality, freedom and connection. Yet seeing it expressed so simply in dance moved me more than many conversations ever could.
This isn’t better than other forms of dance. It simply showed me another possibility. A beautiful reminder that connection doesn’t always need a leader. Sometimes it grows when people move together.
Thank you, Fiji, for another unexpected lesson in love and human connection. ❤️
🎵 Suva, Fiji
📍 Albinism Awareness Day
Christine LoveJoy
Relationship Coach for Authentic Love
10/06/2026
With Esther Perel – I just made it onto their weekly engagement list by being one of their top engagers 🎉
I am in Fiji watching the replays of this year's Sessions Live 2026 of Esther Perel and also being in Whatsapp group talking about the content, sharing practices, our visions, debating and laughing.
Of course we don't agree all the time, and that is exactly what the teachings, trainings, learnings of this great bunch of professionals are: people building the necessary bridges in between and in the mean time co-creating joy, based on a shared practice of respect and deep, inner lived wisdom.
Thank you Esther for holding space for all the open minded space holders on this planet. Let's keep this group growing and growing.
❤️Christine Filip
