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So last week in my stories I posted about Shame and How we speak to our children. A lot of you showed interest so I decided to create a series with tons of information about this in hopes to help some families parent in a way which aligns more to their values.

I know its hard not to loose our cool during stressful times, but with this techniques hopefully you will understand your little one more and sympathy with him so you wont go down the rabbit hole.

Change your wording ➡ instead of referring to your children as "bossy", even when they are not around, use the word "determined". A change of the words we use, that contain negative connotations carry a lot of weight on our children mental development. We need to be more mindful.
I will be explaining more about the rest of the categories listed on the post on the next part of the series.

Start with the first one, practice is key, even when speaking about your kids with other people try using different wording like: assertive, playful, curious, strong willed, determined, focused.

Will you be implementing this changes in your household? Comment below!