The Engine Room

Perspective 🙊🙉🙈

The human hard drive can be a mystery alright 🕵️‍♀️

Own self worth, or be owned. Police your own stuff, not everyone else's. In the end, we perpetuate socially constructed prisons based on what others' think or, we bolster a sense of purpose towards unique, contextual, strong values that leave little room for unhelpful or toxic cultures.

Resilience. Build it. Believe in it.

Our insecurities often drive us to seek comfort over objectivity and hard work. However, what gives temporary comfort does not eliminate the compassion and courage necessary to do what is right, for ourselves and for others. 'Easy Street' more often than not boomerangs back to us to cause more grief than was necessary. Making and living out the tough choices breeds resilience and authenticity of character. Ask yourself: what am I really afraid of? Rejection? Disapproval? Rage? Judgement? Abandonment? Being wrong? Is that worth the self esteem born of living your values? Is that worth your sense of self determination? Ultimately, will you regret this? Fodda for thought guys ...