The Subtle Statement

Keeping it cozy while the town glows. 🎀 Coeur d’Alene, you are truly one of a kind. ❄️😍💖

The slow reveal is the most satisfying kind of plot twist. Patiently adding my own luminescence to the narrative, one perfectly structured detail at a time. What’s one thing you’re learning to love about yourself today?

At times, normal conversations with your friends can really turn into a mind blowing one, may it be through chat/ text/ call or when you are with them. You can never deny the fact that at some point, you get to discuss about certain interesting question that's thrown at you, out of nowhere, that you can't let go of not until you're able to reach that feeling of satisfaction when you know you where able to truly express your sentiments about the topic mentioned.

RELATIONSHIP — CHEATING, an issue which is never new to us all. Just like I always say, disclaimer, I am no expert when it comes to relationships and what not. Also, points posted might most likely be just a HIT or MISS but what- e- vuuuhhhh! Moving on...

So, my friend's trivia question was, " If you broke up with your ex for let's say, a long time ( 3 years for example), then wants to be back with you BUT... there's that big BUT right there.. the reason of the breakup was HE CHEATED ON YOU WITH HIS EX GF AND GOT HER PREGNANT, would you welcome him back or let him go?!"

Without any second thoughts, my answer was "NO!" (all caps para intense) Mu explain pa ko?! Okay, mu explain nalang ko. I'll just emphasize 2 strong points.

First of all, if a man GENUINELY loves you, never will the word cheating cross his mind cause he is so busy working on your relationship. He's interested in getting to know you each day and he's excited to discover the whole you (vice versa). And although we all have imperfections (in all aspects) and shortcomings, using it as an excuse while being in a relationship is not a valid reason for him to cheat on you. Yes, nobody's perfect and people commit mistakes, but cheating is not just a mistake, it's a choice. Men with STRONG PRINCIPLES in life would never do such thing. They always value the very most precious things they have in life and if your man loves you, then you should be one of those he treasures. If he does otherwise, well, you're the judge to that.

Second, that the " I believe that if you broke apart and come back together again, you're meant to be.." saying, never applies to everything. You have to always consider those red flags that's on your list. WHAT GOES AROUND COMES AROUND. If you caught him cheating on you once, what makes you think he won't do that again? IT IS ALREADY IN THEIR SYSTEM! They chose to do it. Before you two met, he already was a cheater. Do you think he never cheated on his ex before you?? The reason why they broke up might be just the same reason why you two broke up. Save yourself!
GIRL,WAKE UP!!!! Why on earth would you want to be back with someone who already broke your trust and hurt you so much?? Not only will this kind of men destroy your whole being, they will literally make your life miserable. And this is where self-pity, insecurities, and other negativity starts.
KNOW YOUR WORTH! You are a diamond! Not some cheap ass plated jewelry. If he prefers cheap items, then so be it. Remember, "CHEAP ITEMS ATTRACTS MOST BUYERS". You are rare, and unique. You deserve to be with a man who has the same strong values and standards as you.

On a sidenote, please, if you're the type who can't literally just stick to one, might as well be straight forward about it to the other party. So you won't hurt anyone. And so they will be able to finally meet the ones that is for them. I don't know who else is with me on this but just sharing my point of view. That's all. And I, thank you!

P.s.
Some women, cheat too. Not just men. Kbye.