DisaSTAR

CHOOSE A PARTNER WHO CAN FACE PROBLEMS, NOT RUN FROM THEM.
Real maturity looks like sitting at the table and saying. Okay, this is what's wrong, and this is how we fix it together.* Not disappearing. Not shutting down. Not leaving you alone with your thoughts while you're up late hurting in silence. Love isn't someone pulling away every time things get uncomfortable it's someone leaning in when it's hard. If you're crying yourself to sleep while they create distance, that's not peace, that's emotional abandonment. The right partner won't make you feel alone in the relationship. They'll fight the problem with you, not make you fight it by yourself.

Forget about sleeping together. The real question is, can you still love her when she's overthinking, sending you 10 messages in a row because she needs reassurance? Can you support her when she's anxiously making sure she's still wanted, and that you won't leave her? CAN YOU?