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I used to set myself goals or say I’ll adopt a new habit that could improve my self development but always find myself Come short on something. Looking at my diary and note book on the goals I set On my business, self development and other aspects of life, I didn’t fully reach them. If I set a new habit I always come short on the second week, I lose the motivation and lose track on my way.

Linking up with my two friends we discussed the issue and they too said they’re battling with the same problem. We juggled ideas on what causes this and gave ourselves tasks and to adopt new habits. Beginning from self development and improving our productivity we held ourselves accountable for one another. We are on our fourth day into this and the results We have had are really tremendous.
I think I finally understand what Napoleon Hill was trying to contemplate in his book “think and grow rich” about the mastermind group.

Sometimes life is easy and sometimes it's difficult. Sometimes life teaches us a lesson the easy way but sometimes our whole world comes crumbling down.
Life is full of an unexpected turn of events in every area whether work, relationships, finances or health.
Sudden death of a loved, a fearful health diagnosis, sudden bankruptcy…we have all been through something that has changed our whole world completely and maybe some of you reading this are in the middle of a challenge right now.
My wish in this article is to change the way you perceive challenges in life. If you find this article might help someone please feel free to share.
A person who is suffering or struggling in their life is often looked down upon. People immediately judge them as if they are not working hard enough to deal with the problem, as if any person who is going through a negative period in his life is a failure, loser or has something “wrong” with him.

One of the downsides of the LOA (Law of Attraction)and the ‘be positive movement' is that the moment we face an obstacle we immediately turn against ourselves.
Take an honest look at your thoughts-How many times have you beaten yourself up?
Do you often ask yourself questions like:

>What is wrong with me?
>Why isn't life working out even when I am a positive person?
>Where am I going wrong?
>Why am I not getting it?
>Why am I still going through this when I did all the forgiving work and removed all blocks?
If you are someone who has this mental pattern then please read along.
The truth is that everyone has challenges. It is just the way life is.
Life is meant to have challenges, obstacles, pain, hurt and many more not so good experiences.

Inside of being kind, compassionate and loving towards ourselves and anyone who is struggling in life, we start judging them.
I want anyone who is going through a hard time to know that it is not your fault!
Here is what I want you to know:

1. You did not attract it
If you are going through a negative period in your life you haven’t brought it upon yourself. No, your negative thoughts did not attract it. You did nothing wrong. It is just a phase in your life.

2. There is nothing wrong with you
Life is unexpected. If you are going through a lot right now, please know that this is normal. There is nothing wrong with you.
If you are depressed and anxious please be kind to yourself. Time does make things better. It really does.

3. Being spiritual doesn’t mean that you won’t have challenges
We often turn to spiritual gurus and self-help books in search for answers and many of their messages help us but the downside of it is that you might start thinking something like this:
Why am I still having these problems?
Why can’t I get rid of this (disease, relationship, etc) even when I read so many books and listened to all the tapes?
Some people think that if they love themselves enough or forgive others or forgive themselves or think positively- they won’t have any challenges.
Spirituality helps you to be resilient. It gives you the mental energy to cope better with the obstacles that you face, IT DOES NOT TAKE THE OBSTACLES AWAY.
So, please go easy on yourself.

4. You have not failed
We have so many books telling us that we can have, get and be whatever we want.
But if you are someone who is not able to “manifest” whatever you desire, let me assure you that you have not failed!
I am really surprised at how people just conclude that they are “worthless” or label themselves as “losers” when they don’t get what they want. If you did not get that promotion, admission to that dream university does not mean that all the doors are closed for you.
Just because it is not working for you right now does not mean that it’s never going to work. You can always give yourself another chance.

5. Learn to be patient
Patience is something that the world lacks today. Just look at people getting angry when stuck in traffic or waiting in a line.
Patience is a quality that will reduce your suffering no matter what challenge you face in life.
If you what to make any resolution for 2024 let that be developing patience towards yourself, others and your life.
Everything takes time. We have become a race of people who expect everything to appear before us with just a click of a button.
You know, life doesn’t work that way. It takes time and often lots of time for a situation to get better.

6. Take care of your mental health
There are so many people who are depressed, anxious or even suicidal. I know it is not always easy to deal with life and so many problems that can sometimes leave us tired, exhausted and completely drained.
Also often times we don’t know what we actually want in life. I want to assure you that every person goes through this. YOU ARE NOT ALONE.
You don’t need to figure everything out. You don’t need to have answers to all the questions. It is okay if you don’t know what you want from life.
I want each one of us to know that a negative period does not equate to a negative life.
You are not a loser, not a failure. No, you haven’t lost the battle.
Challenges in life are NORMAL and each one of us is strong enough and wise enough to climb all the mountains in life.

Please keep hope. I know you can handle whatever you are going through right now.

Much Love,

✍️Christo Martinz ❤️

Everything I do, I give it all my might, my strength, my focus and my attention cause I don’t want to create a room of regrets besides I only got this one life that I got to live. So why do I hold back anything, I’m going out to live, to make mistakes and learn from them, to discover my strength and most importantly to find my life purpose and resonate it with my way of living. I came to the world and I will surely leave it way more better than I found it. Yeah I know at times they’re roller coasters on the way but I my must leap in to make things happen, the flames behind me are ashes of all the boats that will would take me back when things get hard. So I got only one option, it’s either I win, or die trying to win

I am Christo Martinz and I am incredible