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Look for what you want to see.

Instead of noticing, accentuating, or pointing out things in your partner you don't like - ask yourself first, "could it be me?"

Instead of: "you're being so critical!"
Consider being introspective: "is it possible I'm being extra sensitive right now?"

We find what we look for every single time.

What do you want to see?

What would create more LOVE AT HOME?

1.) Go check out the podcast - LOVE AT HOME
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When we think in terms of percentages we end up creating a mindset of score keeping and tallying. When we think,
"I'm spent. I'm only operating at 60% capacity,
and my spouse needs to pick up the slack and give the other 40%," we inadvertently create a checklist and a quick way to disappointment. This is not to say that your spouse won't pick up the slack - it's the idea that you think they "should." These
"shoulds" are wreaking havoc on your relationship and a sure fire way to create resentment at home rather than LOVE AT HOME. Marriage is NOT 50/50. Tune in to this episode to hear part two and learn a healthier approach to your marriage.

Listen to the podcast episode: LOVE AT HOME Episode 4