Dazed and Divorcing

Divorce doesn’t mean you’re inadequate. You are stronger than you know. If you’re going through a tough divorce, I can help make it easier for you.

I can’t lie, this is a daily struggle for me. To the outside world I look poised. I’m successful. I bought my house on my own while struggling through a high conflict divorce. I have two amazing kids who are smart and athletic. Thanks to good genetics, I’m not ugly. I can make people laugh. I know how to hold a conversation. I seem to have held it together as my whole world falls apart. My therapist and friends all praise me for the strength I have, but I always struggle to see it. My mind is constantly in panic mode, running worst case scenarios, because for much of my adult life that was my only way to survive.

I have learned a lot over the years, most importantly, I learned forgiveness and compassion, for others, but even more so, for myself.

How could your day improve if you just showed yourself some compassion and exercised confidence. It only takes a few seconds to remind yourself “I am good enough.”

Love, hugs, and prayers,
KDF