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Letting go of comparison can be a big task. It might feel more feasible to start by noticing when you’re constantly measuring yourself against others. Most Fours are aware that they compare sometimes, but it can be tricky to recognize how often you’re doing it, and how detrimental it is to your well-being.

If you’re a Four, what would you add to these lists?

In my upcoming book, Enneagram in Real Life, you’ll find a full section on communication and relationships, featuring even more ways to relate with Fours!