Hope Beyond Hurt

Listen , be gentle, offer a listening and caring ear ! Remember don't judge unless you've been there and have hands on experience ! Everyone handles things differently and sometimes they often need someone to listen with an open mind . It's not for us to judge or ridicule but an opportunity to educate, make a difference and give options and hope ! 💜💜

There's four stages in the cycle of violence—often called the cycle of abuse—1.Tension Building 3.Incident or Explosion 3.Reconciliation 4. Calm or honey moon phase. This pattern is how abusive relationships operate, often reoccurring and abuse increases over time. It's a vicious cycle of abuse and makes victims loose their self in this process.

The " honey moon " phase only last a short period and then the cycle starts over !

Give yourself love and grace ! Move towards your goals every day ! They can be obtained and in this instance, the grass is definitely greener ! Free yourself ! It's time for self love and care ! ❤️❤️you deserve it 💜🫶🏽🫶🏽

No one may not understand why your keep going back time and time again , but the cycle is real and its difficult to understand unless you've you've been there ! Listen , don't judge and be open to the person that is going through this ! It's harder than what you think if you haven't felt it ! Give kindness, love and compassion!

Keep going , the road gets easier and things feel lighter ! Then one day you look up proud and knowing that you created this new life not only for you but your kids ! Breathe and keep pushing through ! There is a big bright light at the end of the tunnel ! Take the leap of faith! Make it happen 💜🫶🏽💪🏽💜💜

Starting over is scary but also exciting ! A new beginning , a fresh start and most importantly peace ! You deserve it 💜🫶🏽

You can do whatever you put your mind to do ! One more try may be the peace you're looking for ! Dont give up 💜🫶🏽

Self love , self care , breaking generational curses takes courage but it's worth it and possible 💪🏽💜

Removing yourself from a situation that's toxic isn't cold or wrong , it's simply loving yourself and setting boundaries to a peaceful life ! Putting yourself first isn't selfish but necessary!

Setting boundaries is healthy and necessary ! The more you practice it , the easier it gets ! What's hard is when it's your family or someone you love !

Life is too short to be unhappy ! Don't wake up when you're 80 and have regrets ! Do it now ! You will have so much support and love ! Take the leap of faith ! 💪🏽❤️🫶🏽💜💜