IronHeart Coaching

The name IronHeart Coaching is based in scripture. Specifically Proverbs 27:17 “Iron sharpens iron, and one man sharpens another.” (ESV)

In the ancient world, iron tools and blades were sharpened by rubbing, grinding, or striking iron against iron. The process involved friction and pressure. It wasn’t always gentle, but it made the tool stronger and more effective.

Applied to people, the proverb means that healthy relationships shape and improve us. The right people can sharpen our thinking, character, faith, skills, and judgment.

Because the process is not gentle and involves friction, it isimportant to remember that we must “sharpen” each other with love and compassion. Hence, IronHeart.

While most people understand the word coach, what is typically missed is the relationship aspect. Coaching is a collaborative, goal-focused partnership between a coach and another person in which the coach supports the individual’s learning, growth, performance, and development. Rather than simply giving instructions or solving problems for someone, the relationship is built on trust, communication, active listening, and guided questioning that helps the person discover solutions, build skills, and reach desired outcomes.

If you put that all together, it explains and defines everything I hope to accomplish through IronHeart Coaching. It’s not simply giving people answers. It’s guiding and helping them find their own answers based on their values and goals. It’s helping men become “Warrior Kings” in their own careers, relationships, and lives.

Whether you realize it or not … how you think of yourself will determine the outcome of your life.

Here's how it works...

If you think success in life is reserved for certain "lucky" people, and you don't have what it takes to be successful...

You will close yourself off to success and always struggle.

But if you actually believe you have what it takes to be successful in life as long as you work hard enough, and for long enough...

Nobody can stop you from winning.

This isn't rocket science...

The problem is most people don't have belief in themselves because they have never stuck anything out long enough to produce real fruit.

Because they have never stuck anything out long enough to learn how The Universe works (work = results = belief) they falsely believe they dont have what it takes.

Sound familiar?

Here’s the truth...

Success is meant for you...

Just as much as it's meant for me.

Just as much as it's meant for anyone else.

Stop listening to people who have never done anything and start listening to that little bitty meek voice inside that knows you are capable…

…because you are.

You just gotta grind it out until it becomes apparent to you…

…and you’re off to the races.

The work always comes before the belief.

Understand that and work within that framework until it’s not only you who believes…

…it’s the entire world.