Becca Newcomb

Connections
Puzzle #267
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Just a few reminders: as we step into a day that can be as difficult or even painful for some as it is celebratory and lovely for others.

Being a mother, or a wife, isn’t the only, highest, or best calling for a woman. Your calling is unique to you and it is holy and blessed and we are all blessed by the way you have answered that call.

Remember that social media is someone else’s highlights reel of their best moments, often curated and crafted. Don’t compare your real life to their reel life.

It’s ok to be honest about your own rough relationship with your mom or your grief at the loss, lack, or whatever else of that relationship. And in the midst of your grief or complicated feelings please remember you are not alone and you are so lovable and loved.

For those grieving empty arms, prayers that feel unanswered, or loss too great to name, you are seen, your pain matters, you are precious, worthy, and loved. You are not broken nor are you forsaken. Be gentle with yourself and do whatever you need to tomorrow to care for yourself.

However this day finds you, know you are loved and not alone.

I had the pleasure and privilege of getting to teach and preach at the the Parkway UMC Women’s retreat this weekend. I love the company of women and the women on this retreat were funny, warm, and thoughtful. And getting to experience it with my mom and sister was a beautiful gift.

I won’t say I came home rested (5 teaching sessions in a weekend is no joke y’all) but I did come home full and fueled. It wasn’t so long ago where I believed that ministry had to be exhausting and draining if you were doing it “justice”. I’m so grateful for weekends and opportunities like this that remind me that when we live into our calling we may be physically tired at the end of the day but our spirits should be burning bright.

Thanks for helping me glow again this weekend, new friends. It was a blessing.