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The insights are invaluable to your life journey. If you’re in a relationship, you & your partner will be able to better understand each other, plus gain insights into the dynamics of your relationship.
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Coaching gets you from where you are to where you want to be. If you started 1:1 coaching with me now for $500/mo, you would have a 6 week head start on your New Years intentions

You Can't Always Meet In The Middle

Finding a compromise in situations, especially in a committed intimate relationship, is always a preferred approach. As Steven Covey says in 7 Habits of Highly Successful People: you must go for a win-win. Anything else is a loss. Specifically, if one party is losing, it cannot have a positive outcome – no matter how noble it may seem.

To “meet in the middle” is to find solutions that are mutually beneficial to you and your significant other.

As your life journey unfolds, you are undoubtedly learning, growing and changing. When you are in the world of spiritual awakening & evolution, the changes can be happening rapidly. The more you learn & embrace about spirituality, enlightenment, empowerment, etc. the more you desire and the further “down the rabbit hole” you go. As your awareness of the greatness that is within you expands, the more excited you are to see what else can unfold for you.

If your significant other is not sharing the journey of enlightenment with you, they may be either staying where they are, or evolving on a different path than you. And this is perfect. Everyone has a distinct journey and must follow the path that is right for them. It is not possible for any two people to share an identical journey, no matter how in sync they actually are.

At some point, you may come to realize that you are in different spaces and that there seems to be quite a gap between you. The most obvious solution to bridge this gap is to meet in the middle. Which essentially means that you must shift away from who you truly are, and they must do the same. Thus, you are now coming together as people you are not.

How long will that space be fulfilling?

Although I prefer not to use the term ‘level’ in a relationship (it implies superiority / inferiority), you may be in a higher space than your significant other. Meeting in the middle may then mean that you must come down a few clicks – which you would be able to do. They, however, would have to come up from the space they are currently in, into a world they have no experience in. (That may have taken you years to achieve.) How realistic would it be to expect them to be able to do that?

In order for you to communicate effectively, you would have to meet them where they are at and communicate in a manner that would be meaningful to their current space. If your journeys continue to evolve in different directions and the gap between your respective spaces increases, it may be increasingly less fulfilling, and more arduous, for you to do that.

To ensure you maintain a healthy, empowering, mutually fulfilling relationship you both must ensure that it is maintained as a priority. The core of your relationship is a sacred space and honoring this will provide that common ground for you to have meaningful interaction from. You are both distinct, individual human beings and, you both have a specific purpose to fulfill in this lifetime. The more you keep your relationship and your shared journey as a focal point, the more opportunities you will see to evolve together.

As always, prevention is better than cure. Being aware of the potential to grow differently can open you both to options to grow into your greatness, while maintaining your loving space. A true relationship ensures freedom for each to follow their hearts and grow naturally into your true selves. Any restriction is guaranteed to be toxic to your intimacy and fulfillment.

If you have realized that you and your partner have grown apart, then something obviously needs to shift. You are not going to give up being who you are just to appease them. And, you won’t expect them to make a quantum leap to attain the same space you hold. Open, loving communication will allow you both to share your hearts & desires and make the best decisions for your ongoing journey. Whether together or individually.

Now you are aware of the fallacy of meeting in the middle, there are additional options to explore to shift your journey & relationship to unfold in the most fulfilling way. My coaching & energy healing services will support you in all aspects of transforming your relationship.


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This Christmas Day was made even more special with Disney’s premiere of the animated movie Soul. We were totally captivated with this amazing movie and the overall message resonated deeply with us.
I’ll attempt to share a (spoiler-free) impression: Essentially, it’s a beautiful depiction of what matters most in our lives and how we can be depriving ourselves of truly living even though we have all we truly need in this moment.
The movie was highly entertaining  and I am confident that those who are not keen on animated movies will love it. If you’re looking for a movie that will make you laugh and touch your heart, you have to get Soul.
 

I’m excited to contribute to Live, Love and Eat magazine September issue. Below are the links to get your copy:

US- http://ow.ly/p12930ciU69
UK- http://ow.ly/rDQB30ciU8z

I love the live-action remakes of the Disney classics, especially Aladdin. There is one song in particular that I listen to repeatedly: A Whole New World. Although it is about taking a ride on a magic carpet and seeing things you wouldn't normally see, it lights me up because it reminds me that there can be a whole new world each and every day. The obvious experience would be to travel to places that you haven't been to before. For me, it's about finding a whole new world right where I am – each day that I wake up. It happens because of the inner work I have done, the clearing & releasing I have performed, the blocks that have been eliminated. Essentially, my space, mindset & perspective are a result of the coaching, energy clearing & transformational experiences I have applied. It is truth that, when you change the way you look at things, the things you look at change. How ready are you to experience a whole new world? Your journey begins by scheduling a Discovery Session with me. I have a few spaces in my coaching schedule and would love to support you in your transformation. Got Coach?

Mena Massoud, Naomi Scott - A Whole New World (From "Aladdin") See in theatres now: http://fandango.com/aladdin Test your Disney knowledge and play the Disney Hits Challenge on Alexa, now featuring Mena Massoud ...

Coaching is simply a process of getting you from one point to another: From your current reality, to the space you desire to be in – in a way that is fulfilling and empowering for you. Your desired state could be to feel joy & peace in each moment. To achieve the healthy vibrant body you desire. To attain the amazing relationship you dream of. To live in financial freedom. Or perhaps, all of the above. Whatever it is that you're looking to experience in your life, coaching & energy clearing can support you in this transition. It is an empowering process that helps provide crystal clarity on your goals, establishes your level of commitment to attain them, exposes & resolves and blocks or limiting beliefs and holds you accountable to the necessary actions. You will be supported in getting out of your comfort zone, facing your fears and taking steps into uncharted territory. And you will get to celebrate each shift, each breakthrough as you make progress toward that which you desire. It is imperative that you connect with the right coach for you. And, there is only one way to gain that experience. How ready are you to take action and turn your dreams into your reality?

Love the wisdom of The Seven Habits. What a difference would be in this world if more were open to the Third Alternative. A better way, a higher way. We’re in this together.