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A lot of capable leaders report activity when they actually need to communicate impact.
Activity sounds like:
“I handled the escalation.”
“I met with the team.”
“I followed up with legal.”
“I updated the deck.”
“I talked to the client.”
Those updates are not wrong.
But they often do not give leadership the full picture.
Because at senior levels, leadership is not only listening for what you did.
They are listening for what changed, what risk was managed, what decision became clearer, what momentum was created, and what you recommend next.
So instead of stopping at:
“I handled the escalation.”
You might say:
“The escalation is now contained, and the larger issue is that we have a recurring expectation gap. I’m recommending we reset ownership before this becomes a delivery risk.”
That is a very different leadership signal.
It communicates judgment.
It communicates business impact.
It communicates that you are not just handling tasks, you are seeing the larger pattern.
And no, this is not about bragging.
This is about helping leadership understand the value behind the work.
Save this for your next executive update.
And if this is something you want to work on, I’m teaching a free masterclass on May 27 called How to Communicate Your Value Before Leadership Misreads It.
I’ll put the registration link in the comments.
Sometimes being trusted starts to look like everyone unloading on you, and yes, it may mean people value your judgment, but it may also mean you are carrying what the room refused to resolve.
There is a difference between leading the room and absorbing the room. One builds authority, the other drains it.
Save this for the next time you find yourself being the person everyone comes to after the difficult meeting.
05/01/2026
I woke up really early this morning with a strong craving to be outside.
Which was a little inconvenient, because I still had a lot of follow-up to do from the masterclass… emails to send, DMs to answer, things to wrap up. But I could feel that I needed a different kind of energy for a little while, so I went outside and started working on my zucchini.
I had my first one yesterday, by the way, and it was so good. Much better than the ones from the store. But I digress.
This morning I was out there dealing with the squash bugs that have been terrorizing both the plants and, honestly, me, collecting some string beans, cleaning up the strawberry patch, pulling away dead leaves that were affecting the fruit, and adding mulch in the areas that never got it the first time. Some of the plants that were sitting too close to the dirt were starting to rot, and I realized I had been so focused on the masterclass and the business side of things that I hadn’t really been paying attention.
And that felt like the lesson, if I’m honest.
Sometimes when you’ve been pouring so much attention into one area, something else starts quietly asking for care. Not dramatically. Not loudly. Just enough for you to notice, if you’re paying attention.
This morning, for me, that looked like dirt on my hands, a sore back, squash bugs, and a breath of fresh air that I think I needed more than I realized.
There’s something about tending to what’s right in front of you that brings you back to yourself a little.
That’s what today felt like.
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