Mystic Nook

I was asked recently, “Why are you doing this?” as we discussed embarking on a new collaboration, and she wanted to understand what motivates me. Why does it matter to you if people move through life a little less afraid?

I do this work because I know what it feels like to awaken alone.

It’s all about the three E’s – Educate, Enlighten, Entertain.

Educate - it gives people language and structure so fear can lose its power and become something they can name and navigate.
Enlighten - The universe exceeds not just our imagination, but our capacity to imagine. Awakening isn’t optional. It’s inevitable. And it’s easier with a guide.
Entertain - Truth lands softer when the heart feels safe enough to listen, letting the learning slip past resistance through stories.

When my own activation (spontaneous awakening) happened, I could suddenly see, hear, and feel in ways I had no language for, it was deeply unsettling and it felt like there was no one out there who understood what was happening or how it made me feel. There were no teachers, no frameworks, no internet communities, and no one who could explain why my senses had expanded beyond the edges of ordinary life. The words people used like frequency, chakras, Akashic Records were spoken as if I should already understand them. I didn’t. And when I began spontaneously channeling, the only response the medical system had was to medicate me into silence.

I do this work because I know what it feels like to cross a threshold no one talks about.

When I journeyed with my mother to the other side at her passing, I thought I was the only one in the world until Dr. Raymond Moody published his book Glimpses of Eternity, stories of others who have had a Shared Death Experience. And I felt a little less alone.

Through work with hospice, I have felt the terror that slips its arms around people who stand at the edge of the greatest transition of their life without a map, without language, without someone who can say, “You’re not losing yourself; you are going home.” I learned that the Bridge of Light can show them the way back to Love.

I do this work because I have sat with hundreds of people drowning in grief, regret, and love that suddenly has nowhere to go. In those moments, all they want, all they need, is to know that their loved one is okay. Because if the person they lost is safe, at peace, and not alone… then maybe someday, they will be okay too. Most people don’t ask for cosmic truths. They ask for reassurance that the bond didn’t break.

Top questions:
• Are they okay?
• Are they with loved ones who have gone before?
• Do they know I loved them?
• Did they forgive me?
• Did they suffer?
• Can they see me now?

I teach because we are all on a journey of awakening, and it calls to us whether we feel ready or not. Awakening isn’t a trend or a philosophy; it’s an inner summons, a remembering, a pull toward who we truly are beneath the fear, the conditioning, and the noise of the world. Some people answer that call with curiosity, some with resistance, and some with terror. But the call comes for all of us.

I do this work because I became the guide I once needed, and because no one should have to walk these thresholds alone.

I am currently writing two books at the same time, writing the chapter based on what comes through on any given day.

1. Suddenly Psychic – A guide for those who are awakening, and for those who have always been gifted but didn’t realize others weren’t.
2. A Users Guide to the After Life – What life like on the other side. It’s about what comes after the stories from Life at the End of the Rainbow – What Souls Reveal about Death & What it means for the Living.

Because as Ram Dass said, “We’re all just walking each other home.”

Why do we instantly blame ourselves and our actions when things don't go the way we want? Why are all the answers to the BIG questions held until the Life Review after we die? I personally think we should have access to that critical information in the here and now when it would be helpful.

When we cross to the other side, there is a two-stage process that occurs. First there is a “download” of information that answers every question we ever had in life. Not just a yes or no response, but a full understanding and background of what led to the question in the first place. Second is the Life Review which is a deep dive into every moment we experienced in this lifetime.

The Life Review is an amazing interactive experience. We can stop the playback at any moment and step into it to understand why we felt the way we did and understand the actions and reactions of the other participants. We can see and feel the ripples of our presence on the planet.

What I find interesting is that we are never judged. There is no being on a throne judging us, and we are not judging ourselves. The process is and will always be one of grace, learning and understanding. If no one, including ourselves is judging us, why do we do it with such gusto now? Most important is that we see the truth of every moment. On the other side, judgment is impossible because truth is instantaneous. Here, judgment thrives because truth is slow.

Judgment is the minds way of filling in the blanks for which we do not have context. Someone once told me that they had a habit of rewriting history based on how the experience made them feel rather than what actually occurred. At that point, their “history” was a real to them as anything written in a book.

The brain doesn’t store a moment like a camera. It stores the emotional charge, the perceived threat, the meaning we assigned, the story that made us feel safest at the time. Then, years later, when we revisit the memory, the mind reconstructs the “facts” around the emotional residue. Because emotion is the only part of the experience the body considers real enough to store.

On the other side, this mechanism disappears, because the soul doesn’t rely on partial information, emotional residue, survival narratives, inherited stories. It sees the whole picture at once. There is no need to reconstruct anything. There is no missing context to fill. There is no emotional distortion to correct. Judgment can’t exist where nothing is hidden.

I am certain the questions I have will show up in my initial download, but it seems to me in this weird design flaw we should be able to access the information in the here and now. It would certainly make my life easier. How can we access the full narrative? How can we stop filling in the blanks with “me” statements?

How do we tell if what we think we know is truth, partial truth, or emotional residue?

If any statement arrives on the wings of judgement and includes any version of you, your worth, your safety, your identity, it is emotional residue and not based in truth. Truth does not judge, it understands. Emotional residue is fast, loud, and absolute, it arrives like a reflex, not a memory. Emotional residue feels like a verdict, it arrives with a conclusion already baked in. “I did something wrong!”

In sessions I can walk through someone’s memory (as if it was the Life Review) and see the full story of what occurred. The challenge with this is not the ability to do it, it’s with getting the client to accept the updated version. Accepting the new version requires grief, because it means the suffering wasn’t necessary, the self‑blame was misplaced, the years spent carrying the wound were based on a misunderstanding. That realization brings grief. Most people would rather keep the wound than feel the grief. Oddly enough, I don’t do this nearly enough for myself until I am writing.

Perhaps it’s time to start questioning those moments and how they made us feel and perhaps mentally “role play” those moments as if you were standing in the Life Review theater. It’s important to shift the vantage point from which the moment is viewed. That shift in vantage point is what transforms the memory. Don’t force a new story. Let the truth reveal itself. The only being on a throne judging us, is us. Perhaps its time to retire the crown.

Ask; “What would the version of me who already knows the whole story say about this moment?” Because in the End, Only the Love Remains.

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