Emily Wehrman Mastery In Love

When I left my marriage ten years ago to heal, I was completely locked up about love. I was emotionally suppressed, full of shame, and had very little connection to my authentic voice. I needed a new paradigm for life and love.

After ten years of intense healing, training and facilitation, I've definitely found it. Here's what I've learned:

Conscious relationship takes two things: 👇

A WHOLE lot of fruit and

LUCID EMOTING.

You need fruit, veggies, wild foods, leafy greens and herbs to embody intimacy because your entire body runs on this fuel source. When you're not giving your body the nutrients and weapons against disease that she needs, both your health and your relationships are going to suffer.

You need a conscious relationship with your emotional body so you can stay self aware when life and love moves your energy around.

An unembodied woman doesn't know how to regulate or express her full range of emotion. Her trauma overtakes her ability to stay fully authentic, and she'll collapse into people pleasing, shutting down or lashing out. She'll settle in life and in love as her heart never feels fully seen or understood.

A fully embodied woman holds her energetic and emotional world with skill and wisdom. She's put in the time, like a martial artist training in the dojo before a fight, so she can navigate difficult emotional situations with more ease and therefore deepen connection instead of sabotaging it.

A woman that can lucidly embody her emotions is PURE GOLD to a masculine man, and everyone else in her life frankly. The ability to stay grounded, creative and heart-centered while moving through life's ups and downs provides a safe space for healing, not only in your own body but for all your relationships.

🧘‍♀️ The embodiment work I've been facilitating with women over the past 10 years creates a sacred, protected space for them to open to their own inner emotional world. It takes trust, time and compassion to rebuild a conscious relationship with emotion and expression — one that’s rooted in truth instead of trauma.

If you know it's time to deepen your emotional mastery, your discernment, your feminine embodiment, and your capacity to create conscious love — this is your invitation.

The Empowered Feminine is my 10-week training for women who are done playing small in their healing and ready to step into full-body truth, emotional clarity, spiritual strength, and the kind of self-intimacy that transforms every relationship in their life.

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Now I'm not saying you should never talk with potential partners or that you should check yourself into a convent for a year, but I am saying that it's a REALLY GOOD IDEA to evaluate where you're directing (or leaking) your energy.

If you've got more energy directed towards searching for or chasing partners than on getting pumped and turned WAY ON about your own intimacy practice, then girl, you are headed for a disaster... or a dumpster fire... in a hurricane.

Attracting conscious partnering is not about scouring the countryside for the one lone awakened man that will finally ride in on his white horse, ground all your wild emotions, love all your insecurities away, and blow your worries into smithereens with his love... shirtless.

It's about being so enthralled with your own practice, growing, learning, and working at your edge so your attention is circulating MORE within your own world than outside it.

It's about cultivating your own INNER masculine to ground and alchemize your emotions so you feel confident to keep risking being your MOST authentic self.

It's about carving out sacred time to embody your emotions (yes, all of them), your feminine energy, and your creativity in love so you don't wait for someone's permission before you feel ALIVE.

Yes, chat with men and practice... with BOUNDARIES so you're not getting dragged by the stirrup as your emotional body gallops over rocky terrain out of control. Boundaries... like keeping your pants on (I said it, yes), not spending long nights out on the town with someone you don't really know, or not spouting every insecurity to the guy you only spent a half a day chatting with online.

Commit to YOURSELF and your INTIMACY EVOLUTION stronger than to your unhealed inner part's fantasies about a rescue romance.

And remember, at some point you won't be able to grow any further WITHOUT the partner (shirt on or off). And at that point, not a herd of stampeding mustangs could keep him from you, trust me.

Until then, join the Priority List for my 10-week women's training, The Empowered Feminine, where we bring the fire to your journey of healing in love.

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