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3 things men can’t tolerate

Bunch of stuff that annoy men… include yet not limited to.... Being a backseat driver. Comparing him with other men. Contradicting him in front of other people. Criticizing his dreams. Always asking him how you look. Claiming you are not hungry, then eating off his plate. Leaving your clothes everywhere. Filling the bed with a mountain of pillows. Hiding the remote. Spending beyond the budget. Taking too long to get ready. Then you dress like a call girl. But men can handle all that crap. Except three things that break the strongest marriage
1.CONTROL If you want to command your man around like a little boy, you won’t go far. Men love leading their families. Men hate feeling helpless. When a man feels he has totally lost it to a controlling woman, he’ll either become completely passive or walk out of their marriage.
2. SEXLESS MARRIAGE. Men NEED s*x. Hate it, ignore it or be indifferent at the peril of your marriage. Most men are shy on this subject and don’t like admitting this need publicly. But eventually, a s*xless marriage collapses. No matter your struggles in marriage, don’t manipulate your man s*xually.

3.CHEATING WOMAN. For both genders, extra marital affair is the highest form of betrayal. But for men, his wife cheating is like a death sentence. Men feel like you surrendered your life to the man you slept with. So severe is cheating that a man feels judged as useless, incapable, invaluable and undeserving.

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IMPORTANT THINGS TO REMEMBER WHEN YOU ARE MARRIED OR IN SERIOUS RELATIONSHIP..

√ don't ever assume that your partner feels loved.
√ Date nights are a must ,it doesn't matter if you go out or stay in.
√ Talking openly about what you want to change in a relationship is important.
√ Learn each other's love language .
√ We all don't perceive love the same way
√ Go to bed without a resolution sometimes, because sleeping on it does help.
√ When you get into a fight, do not just say "am sorry" say what you are sorry for and how you will react differently next Time
√ It will get boring sometimes , every couple goes through the boring "stage" ,it's normal, it will fade but this is the Time in your relationship you will need to put more effort .
√ It's ok to check on each other's mental health
√ It's ok to talk about finances

It's ok to ask questions like...
What do you need to see more of from me?
How can we understand each other better?

Most importantly!!

Be kind to each other
Love each other
Fight for each other
And remember that love is never easy but it's the most beautiful ❤️❤️

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