Be Project Me

Hoarding is a fear based mindset for me which allows me to play small.... Initially I wanted to say safe and I guess it's both to a degree but the reality is it doesn't keep me safe. It is just as toxic as fear is and just as debilitating.

"Oh, I will just hang onto this..... just incase"....

JUST INCASE OF WHAT, SISTAAAAA???? You really want to set yourself up for failure before the get go??? Consciously, absolutely not why would you torture your self like that, right? SUBCONCIOUSLY, what are you trying to protect? Give yourself honest space, acknowledge it and difuse the ugly power it has over you. Because I can honestly tell you, the longer you hang onto the old there is no room for the new!!! All the gloriously, exciting, growing, kick ass new.
Like these skirts and dress for instance. I did love them and they did serve me once upon a time, even not too long ago. Alas, I knew they were too big and conciously I never want to fit in them again. However subconciously, I have always struggled with weight..《《 See even right there!!
Disempowering and non serving thought!

I will live healthy, I will keep the weight off. I don't need to keep a just incase mentality ❤ Instead of taking up space and collecting dust, my hope is: There is a truly incredible woman out there now rocking them and changing her world!

Make space people, you are worthy!!!

So it's been a few days now from my masterclass, I bet your wondering am I still focused on my goals and doing my morning rituals which we developed as key for me with a process to move forward.
SURE AM! SOOOO MUCH SO, the universe had me draw this card again as I was starting to feel overwhelm and anxiety around bringing back a disempowering thought process of 'I'm so busy', and starting to think again 'I can't do this'. As my husband is away and I am batting the home front with three different school age children, different schools and THEIR commitments..... BOOOOOOM, did you see what I just highlighted there?
THEIR.... Are my kids important too me, absolutely, Did I choose to have them, absolutely..... BUT WHEN, did we as a society think it was ok too damn ourselves to treating ourselves like s**t because all others should become before us? I call BU****IT.... Yup, I said it!
YOU need to make YOU a priority, because no one else in this world will do it for you, and WHY should they! Be proud you love on you first and be BOLD about it because if we all owned our own s**t and we all made ourselves a priority first the world would be a much better place. You CANNOT give from an empty cup, so fill your damn cup first! UNAPOLOGETICALLY...
Give yourself the gift of acceptance and love first and you will be amazed at your shift into becoming a powerhouse!
Happy Thursday Beautiful people ❤🔥