Authentic Rituals

“ Soms is het vergeten even heilig als het herinneren”
Is het soms
Vergeten om
Hier te kunnen .

Wanneer we hier op aarde zijn hoeven we niet constant opzoek te gaan naar wat we hier komen doen. Als ziel zit je in dit lichaam, heb je je omgeving opgebouwd en kies jij wie er in je leven zit. Jij kiest wat je eet, waar je naartoe gaat en wat je aan trekt.

Het vergeten dat jij de pure liefde bent voor je in dit lijf terecht kwam doelt op de ervaringen die je wil meemaken.
Jezelf herinneren dat je uit die pure liefde bestaat is dus belangrijk, even belangrijk als het vergeten ervan zodat je letterlijk en figuurlijk in je lijf kan zakken.

Herinneren:
• …geeft richting, zonder bestemming.
• …herinnert ons aan een bredere geometrie waaruit deze incarnatie voortkomt.
• …laat toe dat vorm weer verbinding maakt met oorsprong, zonder opgeslorpt te worden door het verleden.

Maar:

Als we alléén herinneren, zonder te vergeten, blijven we niet-geïncarneerd.

Als we alléén vergeten, zonder ooit te herinneren, verliezen we ons in lineaire identiteit.

Wie jij echt bent diep in je kern is een staat die je nog steeds draagt , als fluistering, niet als roeping of missie.

As the moon waxes and wanes, so too do our expressions of power, sometimes retreating into shadow, sometimes surging beyond balance. If you’ve been dimming your flame out of fear, or fanning it too fiercely in search of control, this lunar cycle invites a return to center.

This is a moon of recalibration.

Rooted in the element of fire, yet tempered by the waters of introspection, this phase asks:

❤️Can you love yourself not through performance or withdrawal, but through presence?

This is the main question, you can also look into:

1. 🌒 Where have I been dimming my light out of fear of how others might perceive me?
(This invites you to name the subtle ways you self-abandon in exchange for approval or safety.)

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2. 🔥 In what areas of my life am I forcing outcomes instead of trusting the organic timing of my soul’s unfolding?
(This exposes where willpower may be overriding intuition, allowing you to soften and recalibrate.)

3. 🌊 What emotions or thought patterns feel heavy or outdated and am I ready to release them without judgment?
(This supports a gentle letting-go, not as rejection, but as an honoring of what has served its purpose.)

4. 🌱 What would it feel like to fully accept myself, not as I could be, but exactly as I am right now?
(This anchors the essence of self-love: not improvement, but integration.)

Authentic self-love doesn’t rush and it doesn’t shrink. It allows. It breathes.
This is the month to anchor in that spaciousness
To let your full essence be known without apology, and to trust that your light, when offered in balance, does not burn others, it warms the whole field.

This is for my exactly the theme the last past weeks, months and years, everytime this theme comes along it takes an extra layer of.
We all have knowledge but as my coach tells me (and he is always right 😅) we are lazy, we know but don’t act, sell not always we do act but we could act more out of a consious state.

This is a subject for everybody connected to me, when you read this it’s because you need this to land and to do something with it.
It is up to you and only you, you create your own reality darling 🌸



The moon reflects you. The elements move through you.
Let your fire be sacred. Let your water be wise.

There is a difference between knowing something and acting on it accurately. We can devide it into stage:
Phase one - acknowledge
Phase 2 - forgiveness
Phase 3 - sit with it
Phase 4 - embrace it
Phase 5 - deflect your focus to how you want it to be and manifest ♥️

Today will be the last session of flow into elements breathwork at the castle.
I'm looking forward to that, all ends have new beginnings, meanwhile don't forget to breath ;)