Resolved Mediation Services Inc

Do you want to be right? Or do you want to be happy?

This question permeates many aspects of our lives. In a society where being 'right' is often glorified, achieving the correct answer or accomplishing tasks the 'right' way can bring about feelings of pride and confidence.

However, how does our insistence on being right or our inclination to say 'I told you so' impact our relationships?

When one person's need to be right outweighs their willingness to seek compromise or solutions, it can severely damage relationships. Insistence on being right leaves no room for common ground, shutting down meaningful dialogue and discussions. It can leave the 'winner' feeling isolated and disconnected.

But when framed as 'do you want to be happy,' individuals might feel pressured to simply agree with whatever is suggested to "not rock the boat" and hopefully attain happiness.

Perhaps the solution lies neither in being 'right' nor in acquiescing for happiness' sake.

Maybe, true happiness lies in being 'less right' and seeking mutual solutions. Both parties must be open to curiosity about each other's perspectives and genuinely strive to understand differing opinions and perceptions.

In essence, prioritizing understanding and seeking solutions over the need to be right could lead to greater happiness for all involved."

Check this out!

Resolved Mediation Services Inc. founder, Jerusha Letal joins Deena on the Life Changes Channel podcast to explain how mediation can help you resolve the conflicts in your life, whether in your relationships, family or at work.

Listen to our conversation on the podcast dropping Friday, Jan. 19th at 9:00 a.m. (MST)
Available on all players.