David S. Ross

As families get together and kids open presents and invariably end up fighting over them (not just the kids), I'm reminded of a client who related an interesting, if disturbing, interaction he had with his father. By the different beliefs and perceptions held, one party was able to avoid reacting to the tantrum caused by the beliefs of the other.

The story is a strong example of how the anger of unresolved issues always destroy things, how that anger is not always about what's being expressed in the words used, and how a simple difference of beliefs and perspectives results in entirely different coping strategies.

https://youtu.be/I0VEOPZl5C0
Or watch at http://YourPersonalGrowth.Coach/beliefs/tantrum-over-toy

Case Study - A Tantrum Over A Toy | David S. Ross - Your Personal Growth Coach A client related an interesting, if disturbing, interaction he had with his father. By the different beliefs and perceptions held, one party was able to avoi...

A very important observation, from our friend Seth:

"When you allow your emotions their natural spontaneous flow they will never engulf you, and always return you refreshed to "logical" conscious-mind thought.
It is only when you dam them up that they appear to be opposed to the intellect, or overwhelming. It is of the utmost importance, however, that you understand the power and directing nature of your conscious mind, for otherwise you will believe yourself to be forever at the mercy of conditions and situations over which you feel you have no control."

Why doesn't English have one single word that means the opposite of "integrity"?
It says alot about the priorities of a culture, when such a significant meaning is missing from it's vocabulary.

The cat kills a mouse,
But neither truly exists.
Do not tell them this!