Thrive Studio

Right now with my practice in acupuncture and love coaching I am really focussing on what safety is. What makes you feel safe? What makes people feel safe around you? In the Book, the six pillars of self-esteem by Nathaniel Brandon he talks about high self-esteem existing when these two things come together - Believing you can cope with whatever life brings your way, and to believe you deserve to be happy. that your needs and wants are sacred. Both of these need to come together to create high self-esteem, and Usually, we are stronger in one of those than the other. I believe when we have high self-esteem. We are a safer human. We don’t enmesh, we can hold stronger space, we can hold and feel, all the feels. This creates us to be better friends, lovers, allies… when we are safe in ourselves, we will be safe for others.
more to come as I ponder her safety. Let me know your thoughts.🩷

Does relationship mean you compromise and sacrifice to stay close to another? Or is your relationship a collaboration? Where you produce or create something together that you never knew was possible because each persons needs were met. I’m not saying it’s easy, but does that possible to you?!
I believe if two people are united with this philosophy magic and healing happens.
Thoughts??