Insight For Life

Do you feel like your life has been hijacked?

Doing things how others want things done?

Taking care of everyone elses needs instead of your own?

Following others expectations of you?

Trying hard to fit in and please everyone around you?

Why?

Does it make you happy?

Do you feel appreciated for your efforts?

Does it make you feel loved?

Do they respect you for all you do or do they just keep asking for more?

In life there is nothing wrong with helping others, wanting to help make others lives better that's a beautiful thing, but when it is at the expense of your own happiness this is when it becomes an issue!

We need to put ourselves and our happiness first!

Sometimes that means saying no.

Sometimes that means doing things others wouldn't agree with or approve of because you see it's value that they can't see.

Sometimes you need to break the mold because we don't all fit in theirs, we have our own.

Sometimes you have a purpose that needs to be achieved so achieve it, don't let anyone or anything stop you.

Sometimes you just need a break, so take it! Don't feel guilty for needing it, they don't know how you feel, you do!

When we do us, we are in the flow of life.
We then feel appreciated, respected and loved when we do things for others.
There needs to be balance.

Focus on your needs, desires and your instincts, give yourself permission to have and follow them.
Then, watch everything you were lacking come to you naturally.

Happiness doesn't come from others it comes from within!