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Dear intending couples,,

I know sometimes you get uncomfortable with my write-ups but sincerely my job is not to make you happy but teach you principles that can sustain your happiness in a long run.

I know you are currently planning your traditional marriage and your white wedding and I know this will be very helpful to you.

I want us to plan this together so be relax while I make a few suggestions.

You must have heard that while your wedding is drawing close, finances become a problem right?

This post is to make you understand the fallacy in that school of thought.

In planning your wedding, avoid the following traps.

1. Planning with a budget that is in the hands of others.

During my time, I knew from the onset that I had no one anywhere that will raise money for me so this helped me to plan with my own budget.

Usually there is this nonsense pressure from either parents, or relatives who always know how a wedding should be but will never give you a dime to meet their expectations.

You are getting married, not them.

You cannot let people who will not help you pay debts make you get into debts.

2. Friends. The first major reason why you will face disssapointments is trying to do it the way your friend did his or her own.

When you compete with people, their failures will be your failures. Your friends will never tell you what they did to get money which they made their wedding look so glamorous.

I know a girl whose wedding was sponsored by 2 of her sugar Daddy's and both of them were in attendance and never knew they're co labourers in the same vineyard.

No one ever documents the success of a wedding but people will write about successful marriages.

Get your priorities right.

3. Proper planning. A properly planned low budget wedding has 💯% chances of being more beautiful than a 'sponsored' wedding. Very little but creative ideas can make your day turn out royal, so start planning on time.

4. The first few months after your wedding are going to be challenging because you both will be trying to adjust.

Set aside some money to buy foodstuffs, ofcourse you need a new place if where you are living is small, and the furnishing.

You should be more concerned about making yourself more comfortable as you move in to live together than ensuring people who came for the wedding are very satisfied.

At a funeral, people still complain of lack of meat in the soup so don't kill yourself for anyone.

5. Finally, avoid borrowing.

This most times has made alot of couples become enemies just during their honey moon.

Instead of spending time bonding, you're are always being distracted with calls of people who either want to collect their balance for canopies, chairs, decorations, drinks, food you took on credit to make people happy.

I have come across a couple that wanted separation 2weeks after wedding and reasons was because of debt.

The lady will not agree for a low budget wedding. She put pressure on the guy and finally the guy ran into debt just to please her, expecting that people will support their wedding.

When repayment time came, everyone was gone. They went through hell.

Their property were seized, they were humiliated and so on.

Learn to walk before you start running.

I hope this can be useful to you this festive period as you go home for your trad.

Congratulations in advance.

-Dr. Bakia T Thomas
Neighbourhood Child Foundation

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