Maturity

You know what is the difference between burden and other excuses?
When you are a burden that means you are heavy so they find anything to avoid u but if they have other excuses and you are not a burden they will do anything to meet u or talk to you.

Sometimes in relationships we have to take some steps back even if they are the closest ones to us. On the other hand If these relationships are truly the closest they won’t let you go many steps back.

In the first scenario, It is nearly a fact that most of the time someone gives more than the other one in the relation and most of the time this is acceptable. You may be aware of that you are a giver person and give more than you take and actually this makes you happy.
The second scenario is you are required to give and not to give as what you want, no to give as the other one wants you to give and he will not see anything else you do.

I can give unconditionally if you really appreciate what am I doing to you. I can give if you only doing this and not waiting for the time I will make this to you back.

If you are not a giver person that’s okay, don’t force it on you neither on the others.