ALL EARS

"A man settles where he finds peace, not beauty, money or status BUT peace!"

Most extramarital s*xual encounters are preceded by improper friendships and emotional intimacy with individuals of the opposite s*x. Cheating is not an isolated event but rather a process that begins with an inappropriate incident or a series of incidents. During this process, a person willingly, knowingly, and intentionally engages in selfish and shameless behaviour, fully aware of the potential harm it can cause to their spouse, marriage, and family. To protect the sanctity of marriage, each spouse must have a reverential fear of God and show honour and respect to their partner and the marital bond. This can be achieved by strictly avoiding all friendships and inappropriate emotional connections with individuals of the opposite s*x. It is crucial to establish and uphold boundaries, severing all inappropriate ties. This may involve unfriending people, blocking or deleting their contact information, and actively distancing oneself from any situation that could lead to impropriety. In the words of Genesis 2:24, "The two shall become one flesh." It serves as a reminder of the unity and sacredness of the marital union. By adhering to these principles, couples can safeguard their marriages and preserve the trust and commitment between them.

Friends will come and go, children will grow up and leave, work associates will move, and neighbours will relocate. But your spouse will remain in your life till death separate you. Therefore, make a solid commitment to never become so focused on temporary relationships that you lose your spouse, marriage, and family in the process. Nothing and no one, except God, is worth losing your spouse and marriage for.