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5 Signs That Show Its an End To Your Romantic Relationship

Funny as it may sound, sometimes, we are so invested in a relationship that we fail to realize that we need to move on from a relationship until it becomes evident. We tend to linger on despite the various tell-tale signs. Sometimes, we so badly wish for things to work out that we postpone making the move in the hope that this time round things will be different.

It isn’t until we hit a dead end from all directions that we are jolted with reality that it is finally time to let go.

There are some rather evident signs that tell you that it is time to move on from your relationship. Here are 5 signs which apply equally to friendships and romantic relationships:

* When past memories are more charming and engaging than the present

Do you find it difficult to focus on your current conversations? Do you feel the need to tap to your past experiences and memories to feel good about being with the other person? It is probably time to leave the relationship behind

It is important to remember that your relationship is in the now and the things you talk about or do together in the now should be able to invoke happiness. If you feel the need to relate to the happy memories from the past, you are creating your reality rather than truly facing or living it.

* When being in the relationship brings you more pain than joy

Being in a relationship should make your life better and happier. While all relationships start on a high note, if sufficient efforts are not put in from both sides, the magic seems to fizzle out with time. If you find yourself in tear every now and again, if being with the other person is becoming increasingly frustrating and if you feel unhappy more than not, it might be time to move on.

* When the other person expects you to change

If the other person expects you to change, unless it is for your betterment and well-being, it is a sign that you should let go. If it is about losing weight or a bad habit, it can add value to your life and is a factor which helps both of you grow together. However, if it is motivated by superficial reasons, you are better offw without the change. The issue here is not the expectation behind such changes. Such expectations are like a bottomless pit, the further down the hole you go, the deeper the home would get.

* When you expect the other person to change

This applies to you almost as much as it applies to the other person, if not more. Staying on in a relationship with the expectation that the other person will change is a wrong reason. It is always black and white, you either accept the person for who

he/she really is or you move on. It is even more important to be aware of this sign because even if the other person changes something to fit into your expectations, you will always find something else that you would want to change.

* When you feel the need to continuously justify the other person’s actions to yourself

This is probably something that all of us a guilty of doing, yet, we take too much time to realize. Now read this slowly and carefully… There comes a time in your relationship where even though a certain act or a certain situation for which the other person is responsible causes you discomfort, you try to rationalise it in your head to make yourself feel better.

The nature of this self-explanation can keep on changing since our creative minds are capable of cooking up as many reasons as

may be required. However, the longer you continue doing it, your relationships becomes more of something that you have built out of your rationalizations and false assurances rather than the reality.

Friendship is very important, take good care of it.

Friendship means a sweet relationship between two beings, it is not necessary that both should be humans. Sometimes a human is in friendship with animals, birds, or any other creature. It is a very loving relationship, there is no selfishness, no jealousy, no competition, and it is maintained even in the worst of circumstances.

In every difficult time, always give these friends without any selfishness, because they are made only for this reason.

It is completely different from the relationships of lovers, because there is some sense of selfishness or fear in love, but there is clarity and trust in friendship. Its biggest feature is that it never gets old. It is often seen that very loving people become bored with each other after a long time, but their friendship is always evergreen. Friendship cannot be associated with anything else. There is also a difference between relationship and friendship. Relationship has to be alert to maintain maintenance but friendship is careless and free.

You must also have some such friend and it is also important to have such friends in life.

Some main things that are a sign of good friendship or that happen in it.

1. Because of this, there is no effect on any other relationships, but the rest of the relationships are also strong.

2. It is open and clear, so do not hesitate to give or take help in any problem.

3. It is open and clear, so do not hesitate to give or take help in any problem.

4. This kind of friendship gives courage and motivation in life.

5. There is no risk of breaking it and no one can break it, because there is no scope for it to break.

6. There are no principles in it and no rules are there, there is fun and enjoyment in it.

7. It can also be a group, which also creates a good society.

8. A good friendship never lets life get boring, but always arouses enthusiasm and confidence.

9. It is true that in the era of social media, this kind of friendship has become important but still friendship is friendship.

10. A good friendship is a gift given by God, and whoever gets it, his life is filled with happiness.

Sometimes we do not recognize such friends, but such friends are definitely available to everyone. But you can get a good friend only if you can become a good friend yourself. If you are good then the whole world is full of good friends. You too should make such friends in your life, who will help you to be prosperous and happy in health, wealth, family and society, and spend your life in a new way.

Statements made for friendship of some great philosophers

"Friendship is born at that moment when one person says to another,

'what you to? I thought i was the only one."

- C.S. Lewis

"True friendship comes when the silence between two people is comfortable."

-David Tyson

There is not a word yet for old friends who've just met."

Jim Henson

"Don't make friends who are comfortable to be with.

Make friends who will force you to lever yourself up."

-Thomas J. Watson

A true friend can slap you even for your slightest mistake

Friendship is a bond that works on emotions. Lucky are those who have true friends. A true friend wants his or her friend to be applauded every where. The heart of a true friend always beats for his or her friend. He is happy in his friend's happiness and sad if his friend is not happy. He is never indifferent. His emotions are tightly attached to you.

He may get hurted over little things as he keeps high expectations from you. But this change in his temperament is temporary as he loves you very much. You should not be surprised if he slaps you on your slightest mistake. It is again because he loves you. If he does this, be hundred percent sure that he has done this only for your betterment. He can't bear the breaking of his expectations.

I am saying you this from my personal experience. Once, when in teenage, I was explaining my friend as if I have done a heroic work how I consumed (smoked) a cigarette. The same moment I got the severest slap and there were stars. He told me then and there that he has always praised me and keeps giving my examples everywhere and now I had made him ashamed in his own eyes. First, I rubbed my cheeks and then, promised him that i would never touch this cheep thing again and the promise was kept. So, a true friend will never let you go into the darkness.

A true friend is one whom you trust more than any one and he too trusts you in the same spirit. This bond is heavenly and works only when if there is a great mutual understanding. Those who posses a friend's heart have been the truest persons in every age.