Haran R P

Gratitude Series | Post 2 – To My Principal

Among the many people I’m grateful to in my journey, my principal holds a very special place. He was one of the senior-most in the institution, while I was the junior-most. Yet, never once did he make me feel like "just a Junior".

Whenever I approached him with an idea, he would patiently listen, explain the challenges of implementation, and then encourage me if the idea had merit. I still remember once sharing how some colleagues doubted my ability to counsel students, saying, “How can someone without children understand problems of children?” His response stays with me even today: “Then every doctor must first break their bone before treating fractures.” That single statement shifted my perspective and gave me courage.

Though not from a psychology background, he was a true visionary. He would emphasise that a counselling room must always be a safe space, a place where students can simply talk and feel heard, not where they are pressured to visit only when there is something deeply emotional. He recognised my work early on, trusted me with greater responsibilities, and never once denied any initiative that aimed at student well-being.

I also admire his simplicity and approachable nature. Many students would often ask, “Why is he so simple?” And the answer was clear: he chose to keep his door open (literally), be warm, fun-loving, and approachable, because he believed leadership meant being accessible. That mindset inspired me to adopt the same approachability with students.

His support went far beyond routine responsibilities. From helping me connect with psychology lecturers of other colleges to enabling academic resources like books and lab materials, he ensured the process was smooth, if it benefited students. I’ve also witnessed his composure in complex student issues, whether visiting students’ houses, resolving sensitive matters, or even when legal interventions were required. Through it all, he stood firmly with us, teaching me how to process and handle difficult situations with balance.

For all of this, I remain deeply grateful. His trust, guidance, and vision not only shaped my work but also shaped me as a professional and as a person. Thank you, Mr Vinod Amrithraj M sir