BESU Confessions

#1770:So, I have spent quite a few days on this hellhole of a s**tty campus. And it's kinda hard to decide what I hate more - the place or the people who reside here. As for the place, I can't complain much. Uproot the weeds and they'll row back, send the fu***ng dogs to someplace else (not the bar, guys) and they'll reproduce all over again! Paint the walls and the plasters are sure to come off. But can the fu***ng people stop being such lowlifes? There are so many things wrong with IIESTians at so many levels! Let us take the cases of the genders separately. For the mademoiselles, #1. You are pretty, you are wanted, no fu***ng need to rub it onto others' face. Just because boys follow you like lost puppies is no reason for you to treat the rest of the girls as though they were subordinate to you in some manner because they are not. Get over yourself and get yo s**t s**t together! #2. Can you stop leading the guys on without any reason? You have a boyfriend who is not on this campus or worse still you have an on-campus boyfriend, then stop giving out mixed signals to rest of the ready-to-mingle male species on the campus. If you are not available, give out a clear indication that you will not entertain unwanted proposals. But for that, you need to make your own mind up. I have seen girls messing around with five guys at a time. IIEST girls are perfect example of wanton women. #3. Don't say yes to a guy because being in a relationship is so 'cool'. If you do not feel anything for a guy you have no right to play with their feelings. For the guys I understand so what if their feelings are based more on the girls' looks, at least they are sincere. But the girls here are maneuvering bi***es who go into a relationship just because they want to be a part of the crowd or need an ATM machine! I understand if you want to give a guy who has asked you a chance. Don't make things official from the beginning and try to stretch something which is not meant to be. Start off as friends and make sure that the guy understands that. DO NOT LEAD THEM ON. #4. Can the women folk be friendly amongst themselves. No wonder, the term's called cat-fight and not tom-fight. Yes, even the males have rivalry but the women here, or should I say the maidens, do not know the value of being a friend in need. They use their female companions as much as they use their male counterparts. Can you not sincerely feel for a fellow mate? Even guys have bros but the girls here will be selfish bi***es forever. For the kind messeigneurs, #1. I kinda wanna say GET A LIFE but I'd rather first, GET SOME FU***NG ENGLISH LESSONS!!! The kind of cheap s**t spluttering out of your stupid vocals really get on the nerves of those who know the language better than you do. If you can't speak English properly, then forget about impressing girls over Facebook chats. There is a minimum standard of English that each one should be able to put to use or else they aren't fit to be called literate. #2. Can you NOT message the fairer s*x every time you spot them online. It is seriously annoying and simply beats the s**t outta my pretty little head so as to how do guys come up with questions as intelligent as "What did you eat for dinner today?" to discuss over a chat stretched for over an hour long. #3. Guys never know when to stop. Be it the drinks or ci******es or hitting on the women folk, they simply don't wanna stop. An occasional drink is always refreshing, wallowing in the weak forces of attraction of liquids' atoms is NOT! Getting drunk and wasted for no reason and then missing classes is not cool, people! And so is the ring of inexhaustible smoke coming from the butt. I mean what's so cool about getting lung cancer? An occasional smoke during social gatherings is s*xy but taking a whiff whenever and wherever you please is frustrating for the people who are forced to be secondary smokers. #4. STOP thinking that you like a girl just because she is pretty. I must admit that physical attributes play a teensy-tiny role in the affinity you develop for a person but most of the people on this campus just dig for looks. Why can't you appreciate a girl for what is inside her head/mind rather than what is on her face. Now I am not asking you to fall for a gorilla (that'd be hilarious tho xD) but looks is not everything. Plus, if a girl is taken, move on. If not, make your moves strategically in real life and not on Facebook. And most importantly, it's not that much of a necessity to have a girlfriend. I don't know why but most of the guys possess this misconception. #5. Learn to take criticism positively. I once told this guy that his communication skills are horrible and he told me go to hell (Haha, talking to him was hell, so yeah...) Guys let every small thing get to their heads and the need to feed their ego is pretty ridiculous. Even for the little thing I have jotted out here will be turned into a jibe, I just know. People will try to find faults in my language just because they want to belittle me. I might not be perfect but I am better than you, and at least I try. Don't get defensive and definitely not evasive but try. Make an effort at making this better. I have seen so many wonderful people on this campus letting their skills and acumen go down the drain all because they didn't make an effort. They wish to float in oblivion. Ignorance is not a bliss in all cases, fellas. And you should be always grateful that there is someone whose help you can not acknowledge but he/she is there for you. And that, somebody cares if you stumble on your path and is willing to give out a sermon (I admit, not the most invigorating thing) on a public platform and wishes the best for you even if he/she doesn't know if you exist regardless of whether if you are aware of their existence or not. PS: Expect some more gratuitous words of wisdom in the near future. Till then, please try to implement what I'd like to think has percolated into yours brains.

#1768:this is nt a cnfessn but a questn- what are done to the 3rd yrs till hall freshers? being a 3rd yr also do they get raggng? i know that nobody will tell, but m curious to know as after one sem we will also be a fresher to a hall.. -a curious 2nd yr BEing..