Open Eye

Ladies if you see your man building a house in shags does not mean you will go and stay there.... This shows your man is focused and incase of anything like Corona time you have a place you can call your home. Leaving in town forever is not kuchanuka don't force your man to buy land in town only to impress your friends. leave your life. After all we end up in shags one day. make your ushagu the heaven you wanted.

THE IMPORTANCE OF BEING FRIENDS BEFORE YOU GRADUATE INTO A SERIOUS RELATIONSHIP.

Friendship is the first thing you need and very important when it comes to developing a relationship. Being friends it gives you an opportunity to get to know the person for who they are and gives you the opportunity to learn things about them that you would not have learned otherwise.

Many relationship are failing because someone did not allocate a lot of airtime in being friends first to understand the person behaviour, talks, how they treat people, whether they take alcohol, or anything etc...

When you Jump into a relationship without being friends first,all types of issues and challenges may occur. You begin to accept more from the person and sometimes set a realistic expectations.
By putting friendship before a relationship, you can easily decide whether they are the perfect one to date or not as there wil be no pretence and more open space to talk things that matters.

Friendship then lover

We put so much pressure on someone because of your own expectations and desire? When you develop a genuine friendship, there are no expectations. You both can be your true selves. You can learn everything you want to know about each other. You don't have to worry about pretending to be someone you're not.

Finally, Developing a bond of friendship before a relationship may be better than just letting the attraction get the better of you and discovering later that you can't even be good friends.

If there is anyone without a sin let him be first to cast the stone, this was a question asked by Jesus directed to people who wanted to stone the pr******te.

A times we like judging people without walking a step with them to understand the reason they found themselves into the situation.

Today I decided to approach someone my purpose and reason is I wanted to know the reason she does the job.

This is how I approached her and ofcoz at first she thought I wanted a session. This how the question was. how is the day, she replied not bad, what about yours? I answered cool she smiled,

They I posed a question, I understand very well is not your wish to do what you do for a leaving, and if I was in a position will be willing to open a business for you.....from the look I could tell she was impressed by the approach.

Are you willing to tell me the reason why you found yourself in this situation? I posed another question. When I could She was ready to share I looked for a place we could have a cup of coffee thank God there was a place nearby.

First she said she has never found anyone caring not even claimed 'saved' people behave like that everyone was like wachana na hawa ni Malaya( don't mind about this people because they are pr******tes).

This lady was an Orphan 13 years then. Every person in the family was not willing to support her. The reason why she could not hold anymore was in the family one of them wanted to r**e her.

She went out luckily she got a job as a house girl but unfortunately the husband to the family where she was working wanted to sleep with her.

When the wife found out without investigating she was thrown out around 10 pm. She went out at 10pm no where to sleep, fortunately, there was this lady she met around that time took her home, housed her for two days.... but little did she know the lady was a s*x work. She brought a man slept with her where after the session was given 3000.

To cut the story short,
That's how she started the job up to date because the only person she found as a mentor was a s*x work. If were' you at 13 years old and the only person who cared for you was a s*x work ungefanya???