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💸💲Money Skill In Real Life

As we grow the money skills tree, a key factor is allowing the Autistic Adult (AA) to practice good decision making.

It is so much easier to take control and advise or tell them what to do. And in this situation, it was what I really wanted to do.

But I realised that if I let her decide, she would be better because of it. So I stood firm - although unsure of the outcome.

I am so glad that I did.

Jolin made a good decision, and she felt proud of herself, and I felt proud of her too.

She did not realize but she was practicing her self-control and decision making muscles.

She may not always get it right from here on, but I do know that with more and more real life experiences like this, with good questions and supports, she will get stronger at making better decisions and an increased understanding of how to manage the money she has.

We already see here that she could:
- explore options (buy something cheaper)
- knew that she could wait for her favourite
- choose food (NEED) and a small blind box (WANT) vs just a big WANT

Great beginnings!

What are some ways your AA practiced making decisions with their money? Comment below, we would love to hear from you.

💰💸Money Skills Series - Episode 1

Most parents start by teaching their autistic teen how to spend money.

But here’s the truth…
💡 Money skills don’t start with spending.
They start with understanding.

Think of it like growing a tree 🌳
You can’t focus on the fruit…
if the roots aren’t strong first.

Before budgeting, saving, or making “good choices”…
your teen needs to understand:

• What money is
• Why we need money (And the opportunities it brings)
• And the basics of ringgit and cents

And the good news?
You don’t need complicated lessons.

Just ONE intentional moment a day that builds connection and can be done at home

✨ If you want 30 simple, practical ideas to build strong money foundations at home (For L2-3)
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