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Never expected Motherhood to be that challenging till I became a mother :)

Being as a rebellious child myself, always criticising my mum for the things she had never done. Only now then, I realized being as a mother itself is challenging.

Sacrifices of uncountable time for our lovely child that included our time to sleep. Staying up late for meal preparation, party decoration or plan activities for our child just to make our days meaningful and educational.

And everything makes it so worth while, when you see your smile, laugh, excelling in different areas in their life and finding their nitche in life.🥰

Yup, that's unconditional love is all about.

Dedicated to all the wonderful mum in the whole world 💖

妈妈加油　💖

＃stayathomemum

Whenever my child broke down, my parents will try multiple ways to stop them from crying..... Oh yes, I was born in a traditional family that crying is bad.

Only when I grew up, I learned that "Emotions are build in a way to help us move and survive." and if we try to suppress our emotions, it will affect our health in a negative manner.

Buidling a healthy emotions starts from our family. Asking your children frequently, "How are you feeling today?" will help our children accept their emotions healthily.

Why Parents Yell??

How to remain calm and peaceful when you face a child who is throwing her tantrum?

There are multiple times that I try desperately to cool myself whenever I face with my child. Running our of patience is always my struggle.

It’s difficult to watch a child struggle with intense emotions. Sometimes it feels so painful to watch your child hurt that you wish it would all go away. This is when you find yourself trying to squash the emotion by saying, “You’re fine” or “Stop crying” or “This isn’t a big deal” or “Too bad.”

But, in the past, when I tried to squash the emotion, I never gave my son the chance to cope, develop self-control, or calm himself. One excellent way to help kids learn to cope on their own is to meet them right at the emotion.

You can say things like…

”It’s disappointing when you have to leave the toy shop.”

“It’s disappointing when you have to say good night with your friends and go to bed at night.”

“It’s disappointing when you can't have ice cream this time.”