The Counselors view

There'd always be periods of misunderstanding in marriage. Don't jump to ask your spouse out of the house, seek a separation or pronounce a divorce. It is not very mature and it doesn't help the situation.

You can only come back with an apology for so long, someday, it will no longer be accepted.

Marriage is not easy and should not be a place to condone abuse or mistreatment but we should also be careful in how quickly we seek an exit based on unprocessed emotions, rushed reactions, nuptial immaturity and rage.

Dear Mr "Get out of my house",

I divorce you, I divorce you, I divorce you.

Slow down and think so that your decisions can be better.

So, I remember the look on his face from that day (you know how you can just tell when a man is not being straight) but since he said he bought it cheap...no wahala. This was our first year back in the country as a couple and he just seemed to believe he was 'street'. He never confessed this part o.

Why do men do this anyway? If only you all knew! We add ours to support, massive support. Hehehe giant prawns abi, N2500 for soup and you still dey price, oya go and buy it now.

God bless all the supportive wives out there whose efforts are not seen as much. You rock.

Dear husbands, please be calming down small small, we know it's not easy but recognise us too, you will not faint.