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Four days ago, I called my boyfriend to inform him that I’d be traveling to the village next month for Christmas and that I’d like him to send me some money to buy a few things. He replied that he was busy at work and asked me to send him a text message listing what I needed. Then, he ended the call.

As a faithful girlfriend, I quickly composed a detailed text message outlining the items I needed:

iPhone 15

Two pairs of jeans

Two tops

Two pairs of shoes

Two handbags

Two human hair wigs

A 50kg bag of rice

25 liters of groundnut oil

One carton of noodles

Two crates of eggs

After sending the message, I waited all day, but he didn’t call or text back. In the evening, I tried calling his number, only to discover I couldn’t reach him. I checked his messenger and WhatsApp, and both appeared blank—I realized he had blocked me.

The next day, I borrowed my neighbor’s phone to call him. He answered, but as soon as he heard my voice, he ended the call and blocked that number too. Yesterday morning, I tried using my landlady’s phone. He picked up, but once he realized it was me, he ended the call and blocked that number as well. Now, any number I use to call him gets blocked immediately.

I’m really confused and need advice. Why is my boyfriend blocking me? Is it wrong for me to ask him to buy me things for Christmas? For context, he is a tricycle rider and earns money daily, so I don’t understand why he’s acting like this. What should I do? Please help.

I met a Redeemed girl online after she commented on a post I made about immorality in higher institutions. Her boldness impressed me, and when some people attacked me online for the post, she became my defender. Brethren, I fell in love immediately—y’all know me, I love decent girls.

She was from Abia State but lived in Jos, while I was in Owerri. Transport costs made visiting challenging. I asked her out, and she told me she needed time to think about it. That same evening, I posted pictures of my new washing machine and my comfortable house online. As expected, her response came faster than I anticipated—she said yes.

We started dating, mostly via video calls. She always wore agbadas and headwraps, even at home. I asked if she always dressed like that, and she said yes, she didn’t like revealing her body. I couldn’t even see her figure because of those buba gowns. Concerned, I asked if she’d stop wearing them if we got married. She assured me she would, and that made me happy.

After two months, I suggested she visit me, but she said it was ungodly and even quoted the Bible about a man leaving his family to cleave to his wife. I was disappointed but brushed it off—it’s part of marrying an overly decent girl, I thought.

After six months, I decided to visit her in Jos. She looked great in person, and we spent time together, but she wouldn’t even let me hold her hand. I proposed, and she said yes. That was the first time she allowed me to hug her, though she kept her hands between us.

One evening, before leaving Jos, I tried kissing her. She sprang up and wiped her lips with her gown. Confused and annoyed, I asked if my mouth smelled. She said no, but explained she’d never kissed anyone before. That made me happy but also frustrated. Eventually, she allowed a kiss but stared at me the whole time, unsettling my spirit.

Fast forward to the wedding preparations. She stayed back in her parents’ house until the wedding night. Her bridesmaids were glamorous, but something didn’t sit right. I heard people calling her “Nicki,” and I wondered where that name came from since her name was Ifeyinwa.

Finally, it was our wedding night. I was eager to consummate the marriage. As I undressed her, I saw a tattoo on her chest. Shocked, I asked about it, and she said it was a birthmark. Then I saw another tattoo on her thigh: “Sexy Nicki.” My heart sank.

When I demanded the truth, she confessed it was from her past. I realized I had been deceived, spending millions on a wedding, thinking I was marrying an untouched woman. Furious, I called her parents, demanding a refund for the bride price.

This story isn’t to insult good women out there—men still love decent women. But let this be a lesson: don’t be fooled by appearances.

WOMEN AND THEIR MANIPULATION SECRETS REVEALED.

The moments a woman can no longer control a man he calls him mummy's boy.

The moments a woman want to avoid being accountable she shouts that the man is being insecure.

The moments she wants her man to get her something she begins to compare him with other men who does that same thing to their woman.

The moments you caught her cheating she begins to cry for forgiveness but the truth is she's not crying because she wants to change or feel sorry but because you caught her.

The moments you shout DNA women will start crying how men have trust issues blahblahblah.

A gender that will never allow their own brother or children marry their friend who is pr******te but will come online and protest that other men should marry pr******te.

The moment she doesn't want to explain because of no evidence she begins to shed crocodile tears.

Women and blackmail na 5&6.

Take them serious at your own peril.

Be wise, I come in Peace ✌️

21 HABITS THAT TURN BOYS INTO MEN:

1. Responsibility:
Take responsibility for your actions & be accountable for your mistakes.

2. Respect:
Show respect for yourself & others, including those who are different from you.

3. Honesty:
Be honest in your words & actions.

4. Empathy:
Try to understand and relate to the feeling and experiences of others.

5. Self-control:
Practice self-control and resist negative impulses.

6. Perseverance:
Keep working hard and don't give up, even when things get tough.

7. Initiative:
Take initiative and be proactive in your goals and responsibilities.

8. Time management:
Use your time wisely and efficiently.

9. Good communication:
Communicate clearly & effectively with others.

10. Problem-solving:
Use critical thinking and problem solving skills to overcome challenges.

11. Resourcefulness:
Use your resources and skills effectively to get things done.

12. Independence:
Develop independence and self-reliance.

13. Interdependence:
Recognize the importance of teamwork and interdependence with others.

14. Creativity:
Use your creativity and imagination to come up with new ideas and solutions.

15. Adaptability:
Be flexible & adaptable to change.

16. Leadership:
Develop leadership skills and the ability to inspire and guide others.

17. Emotional intelligence:
Develop your emotional intelligence and the ability to understand and manage your own emotions and those of others.

18. Confidence:
Believe in yourself and your abilities.

19. Courage:
Be brave and stand up for what you believe in.

20. Humility:
Be humble and open to learning and growth.

21. Gratitude:
Practice gratitude and appreciate what you have.