Family issue

money is at the root of many troubled marriages. Our troubled economy has brought trouble to many marriages. Sometimes trouble comes from how the available resources are managed those who have plenty of money have little time for themselves and family, while those who have plenty of time on their hands have little money.it takes plenty of time and efforts to make money and very little time is left for family and other endeavours. Therefore, if you want a husband who will be with you round the clock, go and marry a person, who works from 8am to 3pm and is free on weekends But you should be contented with a simple life at least in the early stages of your marriage. But if you want the good things of life—exotic holidays, designer clothes, expensive jewelry,you will spend many cold nights alone because your spouse will have to work very hard and smart to provide these I maintain, scarcely does a young man have plenty of time and legitimate money at the same time. So young ladies need to carefully make their choices and be prepared for the consequences of their choices; you can’t have your cake and eat it. Happy Mothers day

divorce is still a “taboo” and a last option for many couples. Some couples stick together even when the marriage has broken down because of the children, family and what people will say. I would rather they found the will and resurrected their marriages rather than cling to a dead horse. Sometimes, marriage is a hot and stuffy kitchen, but you have to hang in there and look after your food (all that you have laboured for) or it will get burnt. Open the windows, install air conditioners; look for ways to reduce the heat (explore ways to make your marriage work). The truth is no marriage will survive in the absence of forgiveness, patience, tolerance, perseverance and sacrifice For Christians, from the beginning the Bible sets the tone on divorce: “a man leaves his father and mother and clings to his wife and the two of them become one body” Jesus Christ then added: “what God has joined, man must not put asunder St. Paul amplifies further To the married I give this command (not I, but the Lord): A wife must not separate from her husband. But if she does, she must remain unmarried or else be reconciled to her husband. And a husband must not divorce his wife. Marriage is tricky, so it is difficult to understand fully what goes on in the other person’s abode