GAR Matchmaking

1. MISBEHAVING: Saying bad or hateful things, making bad jokes and insulting each other between couples.

2. IGNORE: Not replying back to the "salams" or giving each other the good ear to listen and share between couples.

3. LYING: Allah forbids the believers to lie. There is no room in Islam for liars, and may Allah save us from this evil, ameen. Lying between couples brings lack of trust, suspicious and hence an unhealthy marriages.

4. BREAKING PROMISES: Keeping a trust is also an important characteristic of a believer. When you promise your spouse severally and you don't fulfil it, the love between you both becomes weaken

5. AVOIDING INTIMACY: You hug the brothers at the mosque, but what about a "little hug" with your wife? Come on, you can do it. Know that women have sexual urge and need satisfaction; stop satisfying only yourself, ask your wife if she's satisfied and try to satisfy her sexually

6. SUSPICION & BACKBITING: Allah says, "O believers, avoid much suspicion. Certainly suspicion is sinful. And don't spy or backbite each other. Would any of you like to eat the flesh of your dead brother. You would hate it. Fear Allah's punishment. For sure Allah is the Acceptor of repentance, The Merciful." [Quran 49: 12]. Avoid suspicion about your spouse for no good reason.

7. TOO BUSY: Take time for each other. You have rights on each other. Give everyone their rights and you will be given your rights. Many marriages suffer because of the spouses’ lack of time for each other and their family. If you are a working, married couple, allot few hours of your time to bond with your spouse. This fosters open communication to achieve marital happiness and trust.

8. NOT PRAYING: Allah will never be pleased with someone who leaves His guidance and does not worship Him. This will cause Muslim families serious problems and even to split up, faster than anything!

May Allah protect you and give everything you want for your family. Please be just in your house. And Take care of them.

They need it.❤️

May Allah make our families the coolness of our eyes. Put your trust in Allah Insha'Allah! May Allah ﷲﷻ bless your Marriages And Provides For Singles. Ameen.

The smart brother must select a sister he can afford, and spend within his means in providing the food, shelter and clothing.